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Children pressed on his father, forcing him to sell the house, but the pensioner is not squinting, found a way out of the situation.
Alexander's children didn't know, where to find moneyThey were so badly needed. So they began to put pressure on his father to sell his house outside the city. But the man had a completely different plan. What the savvy man did and whether he helped his son and daughter, read today's story.
Alexander is 58 years old and a widower. He has two adult children: daughter Anna and son Vladimir. In spring and summer, a man lives outside the city in a small house. He handles the plot and the garden. And when it gets cold, the pensioner moves to the city for the winter, where he has a cozy one-piece in one of the sleeping areas.
Children do not visit their father very often. Except when they need something. For the past few years, they have been urging Alexander to sell his house and land outside the city. They say to go there far, and there is no infrastructure nearby. Anya and Vova worry that if their dad is in danger, they won’t be able to help him.
However, the motives of Alexander’s children were quite different. They don't know where to find the money. She got married early and thought she had met her true love. But it turned out that her husband did not need a family. When she became pregnant, her husband abandoned her. She did not have a decent job because her husband always provided it. Alexander had high hopes for his son. However, he was unable to get back on his feet. He got into some kind of adventure, invested a lot of money in a business that eventually went bankrupt.
So the pensioner's children just wanted him to sell the house and share the money with them. Alexander was always against it. He didn't feel he had to help his adult children financially. And he did not have such an opportunity until one day the man invited the children to his home for a serious conversation.
Anya and Vova were happy with the clever plan, they thought that their father had finally come to his senses. But things turned out to be a little different. “Guys, I know you’re not in the best position right now and you need the money. I have the opportunity to help you, Alexander said.
In the eyes of Anna and Vladimir there was a light. They thought their old man had finally decided to sell the house. I said, No, I’m not going to sell my house. But I have a good friend who agreed to lend you money at interest. You will be returning them within a few years. I vouched for you, you can't let me down. A serious man, a businessman. He's a bad joke. However, in any case, it is more profitable than taking a loan from a bank, since you simply will not be given it there.”
Brother and sister looked at each other in perplexity. There was nothing to do, and they agreed. Vladimir's affairs slowly went uphill, Anna finally found a job. They always made the monthly payment through their father on time and no longer stuttered about selling the house. They didn't even go there, though. When it came time to pay the last part of the debt, Alexander invited the children to the country. Anna and Vova did not immediately realize what had happened. The house was transformed beyond recognition, the plot expanded, even a cow appeared!
The enterprising pensioner did not wait for his children’s questions and explained everything to them: I did not think that I raised children who only need money from me. But it's my fault, not yours. So I decided to teach you a lesson. The serious person who lent you the money was myself. The bank gave it to me. I mortgaged this house and the lot. The interest, by the way, is not as high as you. For this reason, he was able to repair the house, even bought a cow, called Murkoi. And you, my dear ones, have never come here in all these years. And why? You've done what you did.
Alexander said he would never sell his house. But he's not mad at children, God forgives. In May, he's expecting kids for kebabs. And the granddaughter also does not hurt to be in the fresh air closer to nature. But now Anna and Vladimir are in no hurry to their father. Offended.
Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Mature parents of older children do not have to help them all their lives. Especially when they don’t know where to find the money. You can not sit on the neck of your father, who is almost 60 years old. Why should he sell his house, his outlet? Anna and Vladimir were lucky that their father was a wise and enterprising man. He was able to help the children and carry out his plan. Whether they will be able to communicate in the future, time will tell. Agreed?
Alexander is 58 years old and a widower. He has two adult children: daughter Anna and son Vladimir. In spring and summer, a man lives outside the city in a small house. He handles the plot and the garden. And when it gets cold, the pensioner moves to the city for the winter, where he has a cozy one-piece in one of the sleeping areas.
Children do not visit their father very often. Except when they need something. For the past few years, they have been urging Alexander to sell his house and land outside the city. They say to go there far, and there is no infrastructure nearby. Anya and Vova worry that if their dad is in danger, they won’t be able to help him.
However, the motives of Alexander’s children were quite different. They don't know where to find the money. She got married early and thought she had met her true love. But it turned out that her husband did not need a family. When she became pregnant, her husband abandoned her. She did not have a decent job because her husband always provided it. Alexander had high hopes for his son. However, he was unable to get back on his feet. He got into some kind of adventure, invested a lot of money in a business that eventually went bankrupt.
So the pensioner's children just wanted him to sell the house and share the money with them. Alexander was always against it. He didn't feel he had to help his adult children financially. And he did not have such an opportunity until one day the man invited the children to his home for a serious conversation.
Anya and Vova were happy with the clever plan, they thought that their father had finally come to his senses. But things turned out to be a little different. “Guys, I know you’re not in the best position right now and you need the money. I have the opportunity to help you, Alexander said.
In the eyes of Anna and Vladimir there was a light. They thought their old man had finally decided to sell the house. I said, No, I’m not going to sell my house. But I have a good friend who agreed to lend you money at interest. You will be returning them within a few years. I vouched for you, you can't let me down. A serious man, a businessman. He's a bad joke. However, in any case, it is more profitable than taking a loan from a bank, since you simply will not be given it there.”
Brother and sister looked at each other in perplexity. There was nothing to do, and they agreed. Vladimir's affairs slowly went uphill, Anna finally found a job. They always made the monthly payment through their father on time and no longer stuttered about selling the house. They didn't even go there, though. When it came time to pay the last part of the debt, Alexander invited the children to the country. Anna and Vova did not immediately realize what had happened. The house was transformed beyond recognition, the plot expanded, even a cow appeared!
The enterprising pensioner did not wait for his children’s questions and explained everything to them: I did not think that I raised children who only need money from me. But it's my fault, not yours. So I decided to teach you a lesson. The serious person who lent you the money was myself. The bank gave it to me. I mortgaged this house and the lot. The interest, by the way, is not as high as you. For this reason, he was able to repair the house, even bought a cow, called Murkoi. And you, my dear ones, have never come here in all these years. And why? You've done what you did.
Alexander said he would never sell his house. But he's not mad at children, God forgives. In May, he's expecting kids for kebabs. And the granddaughter also does not hurt to be in the fresh air closer to nature. But now Anna and Vladimir are in no hurry to their father. Offended.
Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Mature parents of older children do not have to help them all their lives. Especially when they don’t know where to find the money. You can not sit on the neck of your father, who is almost 60 years old. Why should he sell his house, his outlet? Anna and Vladimir were lucky that their father was a wise and enterprising man. He was able to help the children and carry out his plan. Whether they will be able to communicate in the future, time will tell. Agreed?
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