She told her mother not to sit with her husband’s son anymore, his reaction surprised her.

What to do if son Suddenly a cause for quarrels? For a long time, Veronica’s mother spent all her free time on the boy. For this she received a symbolic payment from his father. However, now he does not want to pay his mother-in-law, because he believes that relatives should help each other unselfishly. On whose side the truth, we discuss further in the article.



My marriage is only 5 years old, but I am already beginning to feel that it is cracking at the seams. It is the husband’s son’s fault from his first marriage. I love Vanyusha very much, but because of him our relationship with Andrey deteriorates.

When I moved in with my husband, his son had just turned 3. While Andrey was missing at work, the baby was taken care of by a nanny. Of course, her services are not cheap. And I didn't like the fact that my husband spent such fabulous money giving it to a stranger.



Then I talked to my mother and suggested to Andrew that his son was engaged in her. She has worked in school in the past, she has an excellent education, and she knows exactly how to approach a child.

Mom agreed to this adventure for a nominal fee, which is quite normal. And to Vanya she attached all her heart, because she had long dreamed of grandchildren. My husband really liked the idea. Of course, it is better when a stranger is sitting with a child, so it is more reliable. In addition, it allowed Andrew to save a lot.



I want to say that my mother had to spend all her free time on Vanya. She cooked fresh food for him, picked him up from school, did homework with him. I even made up all sorts of educational games. But she was glad that she had the opportunity not to spend her pension within four walls, but to devote herself to something really important.

A serious quarrel with her husband continued for 5 years. My husband is having some problems at work. He is now making much less money than before. In fact, my income is even higher than his. Andrey said he didn’t want to pay my mom anymore. Like, we're not strangers anymore, so mom should sit with Vanya for nothing.



I'm not comfortable with that. I talked to my mother and asked her not to sit with her husband’s son for a while. Let him sit with him or hire a nanny again. That's what I told him. You should've seen his reaction!

Of course, Andrew didn't like it. He doesn't want to pay anyone, and he doesn't have time to sit with his son, of course. When I said that I wanted my child, he said that he already had a son, and he did not need another.



We haven't spoken in a week. I don't know what to do. I don’t want to get divorced, but I think we have a lot of challenges ahead. I’m 33 years old now and I know this is my best age to be a mother. I feel like a fool who didn’t think about his future. What about it?

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? This story teaches us that before getting married, it is best to immediately discuss all the exciting topics with your future husband. Veronica's husband's son from his first marriage is certainly not to blame. Moreover, he will be the first to suffer the most if the spouses do divorce.



The boy probably attached to Veronica’s mother, although she is not his own grandmother. It is sad that many of the problems of married couples rest on money. We think that Veronica and Andrei should consult a family psychologist. Maybe he’s just afraid to be a father again. What do you think?

What would you do if you were the main character of the story? Boldly share your ideas in the comments!