My husband and I are used to eating from the same plate, this is our tradition, but his daughter refuses to share a meal with us from his first marriage. Bashny.Net

When Nicholas brought his daughter from his first marriage into the house, Christina did not mind. The teenager did not embarrass the couple with his presence. Christina was always happy to talk to her stepdaughter. And although they did not have friendly relations, the optimism of the stepmother set up for change for the better.



Marriage of Christina and Nicholas 15-year-old Vika was not particularly eager to be friends with his father’s new wife. But at the same time, she was not negative. Fortunately, her parents broke up amicably and no one turned the girl against the other parent. She now lived with her father and stepmother, as it was much closer from her father’s home to her new school than from her previous home.



Peels Christina and Nikolai have been married for 3 years. They didn’t plan on having children and just enjoyed each other’s company. When people began to share a living space together, over time they began to develop their own habits. For example, eat together from one plate. Nothing like that, even nice. But Vicke, apparently, this habit seemed repulsive.

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Breakfast, lunch and dinner at Christina and Nikolai were the same script. One large plate and a large portion of food were picked up, which the couple actively tucked into both cheeks. And wash dishes less, and it is nice to share something with a loved one. They're so used to doing it that they didn't even think it might look weird to a teenager.



Peels Vika didn't say anything at first. She just ate, looking at her plate, trying not to notice the behavior of her father and stepmother. A week later, she said she would eat after them. Kristina knew immediately that something was wrong. She decided to talk to Vika and explain to her what it's like to be at the table is their little family tradition. And she, Vick, should show more respect for her father and eat with everyone.



In response to the words of Christina Vick offended and closed in the room. Of course, Christina was never a mother. But she thought she did the right thing. After all, Vicki's behavior is unpleasant. And it would not hurt her to be polite to her relatives. Even if she doesn’t like being at the table with them.



Peels Christina was very hopeful that Vika would come to her senses and stop acting like a child. Of course, the situation is not scary. But it could be the beginning of a big conflict that Christina doesn't want to allow. So far, she has decided not to disturb her stepdaughter. But it won't leave you unattended. Is she doing the right thing?

Is it normal that the daughter from the first marriage lives with the father and his new wife? Is Christine doing the right thing with her stepdaughter? Or should she not have raised the issue of respect and education?