For actress Lydia Smirnova, when she was in the evacuation, began to care for two noble men, she could not choose. Bashny.Net

There is a lot of information about how a woman chooses a man. Most of these sources have little connection. theory and real life. The main mistake is already in the question itself. We are not in a market where you can choose fruits or vegetables. Things are different in life.

When I think about those qualities that we pay attention to when we meet, one old story comes to mind:

Many years ago, Lydia Smirnova, one of the most charming Soviet actresses, was evacuated to Almaty along with other film industry professionals. At that time, the beauty was taken care of by many. However, she especially liked two: Friedrich ErmlerA talented film director and screenwriter, and Vladimir RapoportA gifted cameraman. Young people were unrestrainedly in love with a girl. She wandered between them and could not figure out who she liked more and who should give her hand and heart.

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At that time, Smirnova lived with her friend Vera Maretskaya in the hostel. Because of the war, there was nothing. The girls did the bare minimum. But the cavaliers of Lida were provided with special rations. They included a lot of things, but perhaps the most valuable were fifty eggs. Once upon a time after receiving rations Friedrich ran to the door of the girls' room.. He had two soft-boiled eggs in his hands. The man wanted to please the lady of the heart and her friend.

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A few minutes later, the cameraman Rapoport came into the room shyly. He dragged all his. half-hundred. After this incident, Vera Maretskaya edifyingly asked Smirnov whether she still had any doubts. Lydia chose Vladimir and did not regret her choice, because this man was with her even in the most difficult times.

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The easiest way is to evaluate a person’s actions, not their words. Many people are very sweet-spoken. Especially when they realize at a certain stage of life that promises can not be implemented. Don’t trust people who talk a lot, laugh or even are the soul of the company.



All these men, who constantly attract attention with loud statements, sarcastic jokes and clowning, are not worth your attention. Unfortunately, most of them are completely unreliable and highly narcissistic.



It is better to look at those who keep quiet and doHe promises and falls asleep with compliments. I know we all get flattered when we hear something nice about ourselves. But even if a person speaks sincerely, it does not guarantee that he will be a good partner. He can be honest, but his main goal will be to get something profitable for himself.



Very important. test. You need to get to know a person better, give him and himself the opportunity to show himself. You need to see your future partner in different circumstances and with different people. This is necessary, because with you this person can behave quite differently than in ordinary life. Sooner or later, the time will come when you will see the present. Will you be ready for this?