Chose paradise in a hut instead of a promising groom in Europe, pity myself to tears

A loved one is good everywhere. "Heaven in a tent," so to speak. In theory, it really sounds very romantic and exciting. When two loving hearts are ready to overcome adversity and sacrifice comfort for the opportunity to be together. That sounds really beautiful. But does it work in practice? Unfortunately, it didn’t work for Diana.



A few years ago, Diana faced an important choice. At the time of its adoption, the girl was absolutely confident in her choice and was happy. And even though it was obvious to her then, now for Diana everything is obvious in the opposite direction.

Before she got married, Diana corresponded with a young man from Europe. And although she had no desire to find a fiancé, communication with a foreigner led to an invitation to move abroad. To get to know each other and, if there is mutual sympathy, get married.

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Peels I must say that Diana was positive. Because even through the screen, she felt the love of her interlocutor. But other feelings came into play.

As usually happens in life, either nothing or everything. Shortly before the proposal of a friend from Europe, Diana met Dmitry. He was his Russian boyfriend. He is very charming, funny and intelligent. Diana never thought she could fall in love so quickly.



The Peels were mutually beneficial. The spark turned into lightning, and the two young men were no longer able to break away from each other. However, Dmitry had almost nothing. The room was rented in an apartment with friends, interrupted by various works and did not stay anywhere. He was looking for himself. However, at the time, it did not bother Diana. Love covered up all the doubtful moments in Dmitry.

When the time came to decide who to stay with, Diana chose Dmitry. The wedding was arranged in 3 months. The newlyweds settled in the apartment of his wife, inherited from his grandmother. So began a new life.



At the end of one and a half years of living together, Diana came to disappointing conclusions. Dmitry could not find his place in the world of employment, and did not find. Diana herself was forced to look for vacancies for her husband, although in the end he brought home very little money.



About gifts or just nice things (such as flowers) Diana forgot very quickly. The husband did not pay her due attention and only “covered her ears” when she complained to him. As a result, Diana realized that it is very difficult to be near a person who does not aspire to anything. Or just pretending to want to. And it's under the stick.

To her great regret, Diana realized she had missed her chance. Instead of any prospects, she chose “paradise in a hut”, which she has to provide herself. Instead of an intelligent foreigner at home, she is waiting for an indifferent lazy man who has not said pleasant words to her for a long time.



For a week, Diana has been thinking about divorce. Although she is already used to a man next to her, why is there someone who no longer causes love?

Is it worth filing for divorce if a woman feels unloved next to her husband? Why not rush into marriage? Are foreigners really better than Slavs?