That's what scares men in relationships! Stop doing these 10 things because...

If you were born a woman, prepare yourself for difficulties. You will have to learn the skills of reincarnation, become a perfect wife, a good mother and impeccable beauty at the same time. And just try not to succeed in one of the directions, immediately heard from all sides – “stained”.





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Sensual and vulnerable men like to call women cubs and advise on how to behave in family life. They need romance, emotion and beauty at hand. After all, he is always Superman, even in a T-shirt, sweatshirts and with a beer belly.

Sometimes life is delayed so that you do not notice how you push yourself into the background. Among the snotty noses and three-course dinners, it is difficult to catch signals from the Universe, which requires the rebirth of a woman. How do you know that life requires change?

Most of all, young mothers or people like me suffer in a chronic decree with three weather conditions. A couple of years ago, I also had a chance to go to the back of the street, and now I am a little ashamed of this behavior. Much has been lost, but I am happy with the final result.





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Today's edition. "So Simple." I have prepared for you a list of reasons that can negatively affect your relationship with your loved one. I have to admit, I spent a lot of time on eradication #5.

1. It's all gone!
   At the root of all problems lies the reluctance of a woman to do something new, and simply laziness. Gray everyday life becomes a daily routine from which there is no way out. The house is replaced by work, the garden by school, and thoughts are concentrated around the next dinner. Stop! This is where the main mistake lies. Remember, no one has ever suffered from scrambled eggs and pasta, and no one needs perfect purity and borsch. The key to a happy family is a happy woman! Do not drive yourself, rest, develop, and in each tomorrow be better than today! Always work on yourself, even a happy marriage is just the beginning.
   
   
2. Taking care of yourself
   With increasing household responsibilities, women often push themselves into the background. Care products disappear altogether (because: Why? I don't go anywhere! or become a limited item of expenditure. At home, a wife with cucumbers on her face or in a mask of a strange color increasingly appears.
   
   
   
   Try not to devote the other half to the secrets of self-care. Dirty head and nails should never be, and home clothes can also be beautiful.
   
   
3. Ah, that wedding...
   Some women believe that the stamp in the passport gives the right to do nothing. A husband should love and adore their flaws as well as their virtues. And the latter, as a rule, after marriage, strangely disappear. You do not need to consider a wedding another thing and accuse a man of a lifetime debt to you.
4. Fiction.
   If your reading is limited to the yellow press or romance novels, then it’s time to change something. Let go to the library is not fashionable, but you can always download a book on your phone, tablet and do self-education.
5. Hanging on social media.
   Social media is stealing our lives. Young mothers justify that virtual communication helps solve children’s problems. But in real life, forums, blogs and thematic groups turn into pathology! The day begins with views of the news feed, likes and responses to comments. Life goes on there, and vice versa!
   
   
   
   
6. "Jajama!"
   It is a special social phenomenon when a young mother puts her child first. It is very convenient, the universal answer is always ready: “I have a child!” Sloppy, ill-dressed - the children are to blame for everything, for there is no time. The problem is not a lack of help from the husband or loved ones, but an abnormal attachment to the child.
7. Scandal girl
   Psychology of men in relations with women It is always such that he is repelled by a rude manner of conduct. Aficionados of scandal and yell at any occasion are often "overboard", and their ex-husband - with a new, more restrained wife.
8. “Fashion passes, but style remains!”
   This expression of Coco Chanel reflects very well on some women. It’s not about age or weight. What is fashionable in the magazine will not necessarily suit you! Men are always afraid of leggings on plus size girls, toxic hair, fur coats with sneakers and uggs. If you want to change your style, start with the gym. The simpler the outfit, the better, you do not need to wear the best at once.
   
   
   
   
   
   
9. From the Chinese market
   You can see the bad stuff from afar. If a man says he doesn’t care what you’re wearing, he’s lying. Clothing is not important only in bed. In other cases, it is better to get one, but high-quality thing than a dozen Chinese outfits made of one hundred percent synthetics.
10. Like everyone else!
    The worst enemy of a happy relationship is your wife’s girlfriend. They're like infectious spreaders, they're just going to come -- it's getting worse. Girlfriends always know the best, know why and how to fix it. Their example is the most correct, and if you have not been to Turkey, then it is time to saw your husband about the trip.
    
    
    
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Of course, these are not all reasons that negatively affect the relationship between a man and a woman. By and large, much depends on right thinking and eradicating laziness. If there's a marriage crisis, psychology It'll be useful. We need to talk to each other more, everyone has difficulties, and it is much easier for both of us to find a solution.

If you liked the article, show it to friends, perhaps some do not even think how firmly they are immersed in everyday life and completely forgot about themselves!