I want to hide my age and cheat everyone, but at 43 I look exactly 43. Bashny.Net

The impact of social media is sometimes incredible. People who look at perfect faces Celebrity figures want to be like them. They dress the same, wear the same makeup, and buy the same cosmetics. But some do not understand that the ideal figure of a star is the work of professionals from expensive clinics. But not only proper nutrition and yoga in the fresh air.



Her story shared with us subscriber Victoria. She's 43. She is happily married to her husband Michael. They have two adult sons. Recently, children decided to present their parents an expensive tablet. Make sure the family is always connected. In addition, the guys talked for a long time about all the advantages of such a device. For example, you can socializeSubscribe to friends, correspond with them, publish photos. Victoria became interested and decided to try.

I used to have social media just for work. I didn’t write or write anything special. The page was purely for work correspondence and calls. But then the boys gave us a tablet and for fun offered to register in a new social network for me. Only photos can be published there.”



Victoria admits that she was very interested in seeing the lives of celebrities. Find out what they got there. But when the woman saw the photos of some artists, she was just speechless. “I was just shocked. At the same time, it was hard for me to believe it. Star ladies, who have long been “teen” years old, in personal photos look like girls 18-year-olds.

The woman continued to study this issue, because the topic of self-acceptance was quite alarming. Yeah, she's 43, but she seems to be age. She never cared.. But for many people on the Internet, as our heroine noted, this is a real problem. People want to idealize themselves somehow. Ordinary people do it with the help of filters or photo editors, slightly more wealthy people run around the offices of cosmetologists, and the rich and famous work only in conjunction with beauty specialists.

Of course, you can look at the 50-year-old ladies struggling to turn themselves into young ladies and walk by. But if you think about it, it's just scary. People are already afraid to show themselves to be real. A lot of enemies will come and laugh at him. Women pride themselves on being irresistible in public. Men support them in this. But what's left inside? Are they comfortable living in this way?



Eternal youth Victoria shared her thoughts on the topic of rejuvenation in social networks with her husband Misha. But he just laughed at the stupidity she had in mind. “Well, let’s say that in one place the figures are added and in another they are removed. But for how long? You said yourself that many Hollywood stars of the first magnitude are respectful of age. That's okay. It is much more important to find harmony in yourself than to like doubtful friends from social networks who only want to change you.



The new social networking site affected Victoria somewhat oddly. She began to wonder if she should lose weight. Turning around in the mirror, going through the wardrobe. I thought most things didn’t fit her. The woman became more irritated, everything fell out of her hands. She thought that this was it – everyone on the Internet is so beautiful, and she has a whole bunch of flaws. And the age has crept so quietly.

The whole family came to Victoria's aid. Husband, sons, parents. They told her that before she met a social network, she different. More smiling, more confident, happier. Her husband presented her with a new trouser suit, which she had long wanted, and her sons - beautiful earrings. But the real metamorphosis occurred in the woman’s mind when she was left alone.



“It’s scary to say, but I almost fell into this trap.” I always thought I had no self-esteem problem. I was well aware of his age and the surprises he presented. Wrinkles, gray hair, not the most elastic skin. But it's me. I can't go back to the past because I've lived it. Yeah, yeah. I have a wonderful husband and two wonderful boys. I'm so happy.

I don’t know how you could believe this deception. Stars are public. They are paid to make them look good. I'm a simple man. And I like everything about myself. Every wrinkle. I'm 43 and proud of it! I'll be proud at 53. And 63, too. I will”.



How wonderful that Victoria managed not to fall on such a nasty bait of the constant social media fraud. Because every woman is beautiful. Deserves love, care and respect. Appearance is not given to a person forever, but his soul remains with him until the last seconds. Let us take care not only of the body, but also of the beauty of the soul.