How to make a man think about your relationship

It often happens that you meet a man, a spark runs between you and a whirlwind romance swirls. At first everything is fine, but then the man begins to disappear more often, writes less often and there is a feeling that he does not think about you at all. And now you think he's out of love with you, but that's not the point here.



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Editorial "Site" He'll tell you why, how to get a man's attention back and make him miss you.

We will talk about one simple thing that greatly affects not only the relationship, but also our whole life in general, namely, about one simple thing. energy balance. It is no secret that we are not only a physical shell, but also a spiritual or energetic component. And you may be skeptical, but the rules of balance work on all levels, regardless of your faith.

All these things can be explained by psychology and even physiology. After all, energy is not a mystical fiction, but a completely understandable and related thing to the material world. Below will be a video in which a practicing psychologist will talk in more detail about all these concepts, and for now let’s get to the point.





Every day we take and give energy. It can be of different kinds, it can be a lot or a little. Life energy is the power we use in our daily activities, work, study, family and many other things. The exchange of energy occurs constantly: we give it to some things and draw from others.

It is very important to maintain balance in everything. You can't concentrate on one thing. Here you can draw a parallel with beds: here you have beds “work”, “family”, “hobbies and rest”. When you take care of all the beds equally, they yield a good harvest, but as soon as you concentrate on one, the rest begin to wither.



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For example, you work more and, understandably, you spend less time with your family. As a result, the children began to learn worse, you became distant from each other. There is no time to rest, which means you feel tired. This is how this delicate balance is broken. And work at this time will suffer, because you will worry about the family and feel the accumulated fatigue, and in the end, worse work.

An important component of energy balance is a relationship, because with a loved one we have a constant exchange of energy. But sometimes this system can fail. For example, you meet a man, you have an affair and you, even if subconsciously, direct all your energy to this relationship: thinking about him, dreaming, waiting for the call.



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That is, a man receives a constant flow of energy in his direction. Even if you're trying to be unobtrusive and you don't text him 100 texts a day, but you still think about him, he feels it. This excess energy affects both yours and your balance. It often happens that a man tries to get away.

In some ways, men are hunters. And they also hunt for the energy of a woman in love. Not consciously, of course, but still. So, if the energy goes in a continuous stream, the man gets satiated and stops hunting. He doesn’t need that energy anymore, he gets it.





And here it is important to catch this moment and start acting correctly. Often women begin to impose themselves and ask a man why everything is so, what to do. It only makes it worse. But it’s no better if you sit there and think about why he doesn’t miss you, because that flow of energy will still be channeled into your relationship.

In such a situation, it is best to redirect energy, restore balance. Start working again, giving energy. Take time for hobbies, relax, go to the theater with friends. Put the energy in the right direction. Then you will see that a man will call you or write to you, start to miss you and think about you.

Sometimes it is useful to cancel a date, not to answer the phone. Redirect the flow of energy from other sources and let the man know that there are many other areas in your life that interest you. This way you will reduce this irrepressible flow of energy and interest the man even more. Trust me, he'll be getting your attention again soon.

Here’s a video from which you can learn more.

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Here’s some simple advice to keep the relationship that you really need. And you don't have to invent a bike for men to run after you, you don't need much. So remember this simple advice, learn to use it and be happy!

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