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How to learn to come on time
If you know someone who is constantly late, do not rush to accuse him of irresponsibility and neglect. Maybe he doesn’t live up to his temperament.
The type of higher nervous activity is laid from birth and does not change during life. Some parents do not understand this and try to re-educate their child.
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For example, if a choleric child is restrained in everything, ask to wait, think before doing something, teach degrees, consistency, regularity, perhaps he will behave more calmly, make plans, do everything according to the prescribed points, but his internal biorhythms will remain unchanged.
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Every morning, when going to work, a grown-up choleric will redo boring routines, because this is how he was taught as a child. And you won't notice how it took a lot of time for cleaning, washing dishes and washing, because mentally he's long gone. He would have come out if he had not been trained to live in slow motion. Features of temperament They play an important role in the perception of time.
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There are other reasons for being late.
Well-known psychologist Sergey Lazarev advises to distinguish between such concepts as haste and speed. There are people who are constantly in a hurry. They try to get ahead of time, thus showing aggression towards it. Time reciprocates them and does not allow them to have time.
DepositPhotos And there are those who do everything quickly, because they are not inherently slow. They are not in a hurry, they are not competing with anyone, they just live at their own pace. And only in this way, living at your own pace, in accordance with your temperament and biorhythms, be they choleric and phlegmatic, you can achieve harmony with yourself and with time. And finally forget about being late.
The type of higher nervous activity is laid from birth and does not change during life. Some parents do not understand this and try to re-educate their child.
DepositPhotos
For example, if a choleric child is restrained in everything, ask to wait, think before doing something, teach degrees, consistency, regularity, perhaps he will behave more calmly, make plans, do everything according to the prescribed points, but his internal biorhythms will remain unchanged.
DepositPhotos
Every morning, when going to work, a grown-up choleric will redo boring routines, because this is how he was taught as a child. And you won't notice how it took a lot of time for cleaning, washing dishes and washing, because mentally he's long gone. He would have come out if he had not been trained to live in slow motion. Features of temperament They play an important role in the perception of time.
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There are other reasons for being late.
- Standard working schedules are not suitable
For example, it can be noisy in the office. To finish everything in silence, you have to stay. I don’t want to go to work in the morning. - You're too creative.
Creative people live in their own reality and in their own time space. They do not obey deadlines and do not check the clock. Theirs. pace It depends only on inspiration. - You tend to procrastinate.
You often postpone unpleasant things for later, preferring those that bring pleasure or immediate results. But these cases are often so important that it is impossible to be late with their completion.
DepositPhotos - You have a predisposition.
If your parents, grandparents, and grandparents were always in a hurry, doing everything at the last minute, then most likely you will grow up disorganized. Because you have no one to lead by example. - Love of adventure
Doing everything on time is boring. Haste increases adrenaline levels. As well as late, because they entail trouble, from which you need to heroically get out.
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Well-known psychologist Sergey Lazarev advises to distinguish between such concepts as haste and speed. There are people who are constantly in a hurry. They try to get ahead of time, thus showing aggression towards it. Time reciprocates them and does not allow them to have time.
DepositPhotos And there are those who do everything quickly, because they are not inherently slow. They are not in a hurry, they are not competing with anyone, they just live at their own pace. And only in this way, living at your own pace, in accordance with your temperament and biorhythms, be they choleric and phlegmatic, you can achieve harmony with yourself and with time. And finally forget about being late.
