How to prepare for a trip with a child on the plane

There are more and more stories when people traveling on a plane with a child hand out candy, apologies and earplugs to their neighbors in the cabin. So they ask forgiveness in advance for the inconvenience and whims of the child on the way. But is it right to do that? Should parents be ashamed that a child will cry on the road?



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Editorial "Site" I decided to answer these questions, and also tell all parents how to prepare themselves and their child for the trip on the plane.

We believe that all bags of candy and apologies are unnecessary, because they create the feeling that every mother with a small child on board owes them sweets for the whims of the child. But that's fundamentally wrong. Why should the mother of the child be embarrassed? For her child being childish? It's stupid, okay?

When taking off and landing, children often cry because of pain in the ears from pressure changes. Children are uncomfortable, they are not fully aware of what is happening, and therefore whims are a normal reaction. Believe me, adults can be just as annoying as kids. But adults understand everything and are responsible for their actions, and children do not.

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And you need to understand what is worst in this situation for parents. Not only do you have a crying baby in your arms, but the hatred of the whole salon is like a free bonus. Naturally, the parents are even more irritated, tense, and the child feels this and begins to cry more. It's just a vicious circle.

Therefore, a parent needs to pull himself together, calm down and just survive this journey, without guilt or shame. Do not apologize for the fact that the child is ill. Everyone was a kid, it's not supernatural. The main task of parents is to provide the child with a comfortable trip.

Parents are responsible for what their child does. It is one thing when a child cries because of a change in pressure, and quite another when the cabin of the aircraft is destroyed because of boredom. You can't let that happen either. Make sure your child has something to do while traveling.



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So, let’s talk about what to do to make the trip as comfortable as possible for you and the baby. It is impossible to foresee everything, but we offer you a few tips that will make it easier. flight.

  1. Preparation for travel
    Everything should be thought out, planned in advance, so that in the process there are no unexpected overlaps. Tickets, documents, all the most necessary things – you need to think about everything. It is also necessary to prepare for the journey of the child. If he is more than two years old, you can talk to him, explain what awaits him, where you are going, what you can and cannot do. The child will be ready to travel, which means less stress.

    If you are carrying a very young child, then make sure that you have everything you need: changeable clothes for you and the child, food, favorite toys, wet wipes and other hygiene items. A good idea would be to bring a tablet with cartoons or games.





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  2. Flight tricks
    Beforehand. book your plane ticketsSo you can pick the best seats. You can also search for low-crowded flights, then there is a chance that you will be able to get a separate seat for a child even without buying a ticket. Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday are less popular days for departures. We also recommend choosing morning flights, because at this time the child is in a good mood and behaves better.



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  3. Don't be shy about asking.
    Airlines often have additional services for passengers with children, you just need to clarify this in advance. Many companies provide special meals for children, however, you need to order it 36 hours before the flight. You can always ask the flight attendant for help, that's perfectly normal. Airports always have baby rooms for feeding and swaddling, and planes on long flights have toilets with a special table for changing diapers. Don’t be afraid to ask and they will help you.



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  4. Take everything with you for fun.
    No matter how much you or others like, but the child can not sit quietly for several hours in a row, admiring the back of the chair in front. It has a lot of energy, so it needs to be spent somehow. Of course, this is not a reason to let a child run around the cabin or climb out on the head of other passengers (yes, literally). You need to carefully take with you what you can distract the attention of the child. Table games, favorite toys, coloring books, books - all this will suit. You can also take a tablet with cartoons. This does not guarantee that the child will be busy for the entire flight, but you can try.



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  5. Before the flight
    Some parents try to tire the child before flying in the hope that he will fall asleep. But this does not work, on the contrary, the child will be even more capricious. Pediatricians advise to put the child to bed before the flight, so that he has a good rest, and an hour before the flight to feed him. The food should be the most ordinary, without special restrictions. Babies should not be fed, it is better to give milk during takeoff and landing. If you feed the child during difficult moments, this will help reduce ear congestion and relieve the unpleasant effect. And in general, to reduce discomfort from pressure drops, you can use a pacifier, so the ears will not lay. Older children can be given a lollipop or a drink.





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Here are some simple tips that will help make the trip comfortable and not so stressful. But remember, if none of the ways did not help, and the child still cries, do not worry and worry about what other passengers think, just try to calm the child, talk to him, without unnecessary nerves. You have the same right to be on the plane as other passengers.

After all, with the appearance of a child, life does not end, you also want to go on vacation with a baby or visit relatives from another country. Maybe we should all just have some patience and respect for others.

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