How to conduct an examination by a qualified gynecologist

Every woman should have a good and trusted gynecologist. This is important, because at least once a year we need to visit it, go for examination and take tests. We trust this person for a very important part of our lives, which means that he must be reliable and knowledgeable. But how do you know that something is wrong?



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First of all, you need to assess how the examination is carried out, because this is a rather unpleasant and intimate procedure. Editorial "Site" I have prepared a list for you, which the gynecologist can not afford during the examination.

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  1. Your doctor should not judge or shame you.
    A gynecologist may ask you about your sexual relationship, whether you have a regular partner, or the number of recent relationships, but in no case can he judge. The doctor should treat, not teach. Your doctor may ask you about everything they need to make a diagnosis or seek treatment. As intimate as it may be, the doctor should know. All these questions are needed not to condemn you or hint that it is time to give birth, but only for medical purposes.

    If the doctor begins to discuss issues that do not concern medical aspects and you are uncomfortable from this, you can safely leave and look for another doctor.



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  2. The doctor should not talk to you like a child.
    For centuries, this attitude towards the patient was considered the norm, but modern medicine implies a different paradigm. This means that the doctor should tell you everything, explain the situation and ask for your opinion. The doctor should show care, not indulgence. Remember, condescending tone, appealing to you (without your permission), accusations of promiscuity are a manifestation of rudeness and unprofessionalism. That's not tolerable.





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  3. A doctor should not share his or her personal beliefs with you.
    This is about the fact that all his beliefs that do not concern medicine, the doctor should keep to himself. It doesn’t matter if he is a Christian and doesn’t believe in abortion, his job is to give you the best possible help. Personal assessments are not suitable in this case. And the doctor should not impose your opinion on unconventional methods of treatment. You didn't come to the doctor. If a gynecologist tries to treat you with decoctions or homeopathy, then you should think about his qualifications.



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  4. No tests without your permission.
    Without your consent, the doctor should not take tests. Each time at the examination, he should explain what he is doing and why it is necessary. If you don’t understand something, ask!

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  5. He should not comment on your appearance.
    Unless it's a treatment, your doctor can't comment on your body. That is, the gynecologist can tell you that you need to lose weight for the treatment to work, but this should not be in the form of criticism. A gynecologist can’t comment on your tattoos, hair, piercings or anything like that.

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  6. A doctor cannot do an examination without explanation.
    The examination procedure is clearly not the most pleasant, but the doctor should make it as comfortable as possible. He cannot do anything without explaining what he is doing. The doctor should warn you what you will feel and make sure you are comfortable.

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  7. Gynecologist has no right to violate confidentiality
    You can’t pass on your health information to anyone else. No one can take your labs or medical records without your knowledge.

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  8. You don't have to be persuaded to give birth.
    There are doctors who come to you with a problem, and they advise you to give birth quickly. But it's not a panacea. Of course, if you said that you were planning a baby, and the age is already solid, the doctor may advise you to think about pregnancy, but not to persuade. Only you make that decision based on your personal situation. And if you do not want to give birth, the gynecologist should not dissuade you. Respect means a lot.



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This is what every woman needs to know. Remember that your comfort is always important. If the doctor does not suit you with something, then productive treatment will not work. So take care of yourself!

Another important problem that women face is the incorrect diagnosis of gynecologists. Recently, we wrote about five gynecological diagnoses that can not be trusted, because they simply do not exist.

Do not forget that every woman should take care of her intimate health. Earlier we wrote about the rules of hygiene, which will save you from many unpleasant gynecological sores.

Have you ever met a gynecologist who made these mistakes? Share your story in the comments.

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