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Perhaps in a parallel universe, people find their soul mate and are married for life. In the past century, marriages have not broken down so often. This was not because the relationship was good with the husband.

According to scientists, over the past 40 years in 84 countries of the world, marriages began to be dissolved 2 times more often. There are several reasons that explain this state of affairs. Editorial "Site" I decided to share it with you.





According to statistics, the average modern marriage lasts 10 years. The reasons for termination can be different, the most frequent of them: treason, unstable financial situation, lack of understanding. Not surprisingly, divorce is often initiated by women. You don’t need a psychologist to understand that women are more vulnerable and emotional, more acutely feel what is happening in family life. In the twenty-first century, women have the right to divorce.





Time is changing, in the post-industrial era, a person has become much more comfortable living alone. Prior to that, future spouses were chosen to keep the money capital in the family, and increase it. Today, women are equally able to provide for themselves, and there is no need to hold on to a partner just for money. A woman who works is not afraid to be alone.





Many people idealize marriage, believing that it is for life. Only the interests of people change, the worldview of partners often begins to differ. Modern sociologists introduce the concept of serial monogamy. This is a model of relationships in which a person marries with different partners throughout life, while at this time he remains faithful to his partner.

Serial monogamy is the choice of modern man. If the current relationship is not happy, the spouses do not begin to cheat on each other, but find happiness in a second marriage Or even a third. And many people do not need a partner to feel full and happy.





People began to treat relationships differently. Now we meet someone for fun, not for survival. Therefore, they became more demanding of their half. Ambition and goals are essential to building a strong alliance. If life positions diverge, it begins to cause discomfort, and divorce becomes the only reasonable solution to the problem.





Thanks to social networks, you can easily meet potential partners. You got a choice, what's the fuss? Before this luxury and could not imagine, because they were satisfied with those whom their parents found.

People break up marriages because they are more discerning and demanding of each other. No one wants to live in an unhappy marriage. If Marriage does not bring happiness.And you can't build a relationship, it's better to start with a new person.





It is important that relations with a loved one do not become routine, but everything can not be smooth either. Sometimes there is a crisis in the relationship, and at this point it is very important to understand whether it is possible to improve the relationship or still worth a divorce. Those who know the secret of a strong marriage do not seek love on the side. Honesty is one of the criteria in choosing a reliable partner.

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