Why you should be polite in any situation Bashny.Net

Being an educated person in our time is a rarity. When everyone is in a hurry to go about their business: running to work, choosing products in the store, taking children from kindergarten – it is very difficult to expect a polite treatment. This is because the time is so dynamic. There's no time to curtsy.





On the one hand, this is not a good trend. After all, who enjoys listening to rudeness and rudeness, for example, in traffic? There is little reason for this, and your mood worsens. Or public transport. They will step on the foot - they will not apologize, and even they can scold for nothing.





I thought, why not be a little more polite? You can show participation in everyday life, be interested in each other's affairs, cope with well-being.





That's not really the case. Etiquette and courtesy It is important to use it where it is really needed. For example, the idea of encouraging a person who stutters by nature, advising him to relax is not always the best. Excessive participation in other people's problems will serve you badly and only alienate the interlocutor.





Don’t forget about people’s personal space. No need to help a stranger wear their outerwear. Like the theater or the movie. No one will appreciate your impulses.

And certainly do not approach with excessive obsession with a person sitting on a diet. A person is already uncomfortable, and a new reminder of his favorite food will not make him happier.





How do you have to behave in society so that everyone thinks you are educated? Editorial "Site" I am ready to share some advice on this topic with you.

Rules of politeness Do not try to please people too much. From the outside, it looks like an attempt to serve everyone. It is better to try to help with advice or service if you are approached directly.





Don't listen to the chief. In the chaos of the work environment, everyone can see everything. Your bosses are people like you or your colleagues. They deserve no special treatment.





There is no need to embellish reality. A person with excess weight already knows about his problem. Swearing that she lost weight “by 20 kilograms at least” will be superfluous.





Don't let your friends hang out. In most cases, they are not shy, they are just comfortable being in the role of an observer, not an active party participant. Instead, pay attention to those who really need help.





Don't bother with personal questions. It’s not the second month of pregnancy, it’s just Christmas. No, your friend didn't get promoted last week because he had a new car because of a generous inheritance.

Don’t get involved with people who understand the topic better than you. It's just annoying.

Words of politeness It is only appropriate under the right circumstances. It is even more important to monitor the appropriateness of your actions. This may seem obvious, but many people don’t understand it. They all know that they are the best and the best.





What examples of “too polite” actions do you have?