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What kind of men are lonely
For some reason, single girls are often sympathized with, and single men are envied. Although many representatives of the stronger sex is quite difficult to reconcile with loneliness. It’s hard to believe, but psychologists debunk the myth that men like to be “free.”
This is because society does not accept such manifestations of weakness, because men do not cry. It turns out that stately heroes are very lonely and hopelessly looking for their love.
For a long time, a man is considered a conqueror and a self-sufficient person by default, and he needs a woman for procreation, no matter how rude it may sound. A woman is considered valid only if there is a husband and a couple of children. In fairness, I must say that men are able to experience sadness, loneliness, self-doubt.
It is because the feelings of men no one pays special attention, many have a hard time. So. Why Some Men Are SingleEven if they are very beautiful and quite successful?
“I'm tired of being lonely. I am 38 years old and have never had a long relationship. I am not stupid, I have 2 higher educations and speak 5 languages. I exercise regularly, I'm polite to women, and they think I'm pretty. Despite this, I cannot establish my personal life. I have been on dating sites for a long time, but girls refuse to date, and some just consider a good friend. What is wrong with me? – Semyon is not the first to write such an appeal to a psychologist.
Psychotherapist Andrei Kuznetsov has repeatedly faced such situations and helps to deal with the problem. A man who, for all his positive qualities, considers himself unattractive to the opposite sex, has low self-esteem.
First of all, in the search for a lady of the heart, you need to focus on what he is good at. That's how you win. You write poems - dedicate a poem to her, read books - find a companion for interests and so on. Do not focus on the negative and think that there is something wrong with you.
Dating sites are an endless showcase of characters who are judged by the cover, not trying to get to know a person better. The unlimited choice of date applicants is confusing, and those who do not know how to show themselves in the best light remain on the sidelines.
Here. Why are there so many single men?Dreaming of a strong and happy relationship. They put too much hope in the internet.
Dating in the real world greatly increases the chances of getting acquainted with a charming person, but then you will have to say goodbye to shyness. And this is much more difficult than leaving a flattering comment on the social network under your favorite photo of a girl.
Problems in personal life arise for many reasons: infantile, childish resentment, denial of reality. On the one hand, loneliness can be seen as a deprivation of love and care, on the other - as the highest degree of self-development. Psychologists even recommend for some time to limit access to social networks, communication with the familiar environment. Thus, a person can look at the problem from a different angle, distract from everyday problems.
In addition to books on psychology, visiting a specialist, there are many ways to adjust your life on your own. Meditation is a sure way to harmony with yourself, such meditation can easily become a hobby.
If it is not your choice, find like-minded people. Visiting trainings, exhibitions, concerts will give an opportunity to meet interesting people. It is possible that women will also be there. A positive attitude and passion for something makes us attractive to others.
Despite the presence of many social networks, it is very difficult to find a like-minded person and true love on the Internet. The spark that arises between people is really felt only when communicating in reality. A friendly look, reddened by the compliment of the cheek of the girl, the aroma of her perfume, pleasant awkwardness - a delight that your PC will not convey at a distance. Being a romantic is not a shame, it takes courage. What do you say?
This is because society does not accept such manifestations of weakness, because men do not cry. It turns out that stately heroes are very lonely and hopelessly looking for their love.
For a long time, a man is considered a conqueror and a self-sufficient person by default, and he needs a woman for procreation, no matter how rude it may sound. A woman is considered valid only if there is a husband and a couple of children. In fairness, I must say that men are able to experience sadness, loneliness, self-doubt.
It is because the feelings of men no one pays special attention, many have a hard time. So. Why Some Men Are SingleEven if they are very beautiful and quite successful?
“I'm tired of being lonely. I am 38 years old and have never had a long relationship. I am not stupid, I have 2 higher educations and speak 5 languages. I exercise regularly, I'm polite to women, and they think I'm pretty. Despite this, I cannot establish my personal life. I have been on dating sites for a long time, but girls refuse to date, and some just consider a good friend. What is wrong with me? – Semyon is not the first to write such an appeal to a psychologist.
Psychotherapist Andrei Kuznetsov has repeatedly faced such situations and helps to deal with the problem. A man who, for all his positive qualities, considers himself unattractive to the opposite sex, has low self-esteem.
First of all, in the search for a lady of the heart, you need to focus on what he is good at. That's how you win. You write poems - dedicate a poem to her, read books - find a companion for interests and so on. Do not focus on the negative and think that there is something wrong with you.
Dating sites are an endless showcase of characters who are judged by the cover, not trying to get to know a person better. The unlimited choice of date applicants is confusing, and those who do not know how to show themselves in the best light remain on the sidelines.
Here. Why are there so many single men?Dreaming of a strong and happy relationship. They put too much hope in the internet.
Dating in the real world greatly increases the chances of getting acquainted with a charming person, but then you will have to say goodbye to shyness. And this is much more difficult than leaving a flattering comment on the social network under your favorite photo of a girl.
Problems in personal life arise for many reasons: infantile, childish resentment, denial of reality. On the one hand, loneliness can be seen as a deprivation of love and care, on the other - as the highest degree of self-development. Psychologists even recommend for some time to limit access to social networks, communication with the familiar environment. Thus, a person can look at the problem from a different angle, distract from everyday problems.
In addition to books on psychology, visiting a specialist, there are many ways to adjust your life on your own. Meditation is a sure way to harmony with yourself, such meditation can easily become a hobby.
If it is not your choice, find like-minded people. Visiting trainings, exhibitions, concerts will give an opportunity to meet interesting people. It is possible that women will also be there. A positive attitude and passion for something makes us attractive to others.
Despite the presence of many social networks, it is very difficult to find a like-minded person and true love on the Internet. The spark that arises between people is really felt only when communicating in reality. A friendly look, reddened by the compliment of the cheek of the girl, the aroma of her perfume, pleasant awkwardness - a delight that your PC will not convey at a distance. Being a romantic is not a shame, it takes courage. What do you say?
