The unceremonious neighbor made me a remark about the eyebrows, listened to a few more harsh phrases.

"No shame or conscience.” is a phraseology that is used to refer to an unscrupulous person, his reprehensible actions and dishonesty. And here are a few synonyms for this phrase: shameless, unbridled, impudent, indiscreet. Sometimes this phrase is applied fairly to certain persons, on merit, so to speak. And sometimes, it characterizes unbred people who are stuck in stereotypes.



Since childhood, girls are taught to look after themselves, wear white tights with pink sandals, watch their hair, and never run after boys. Old attitudes and conservative upbringing have shifted the boundaries of normality so much that women are already shamed for natural processes. Today I want to talk about the things that society shames women for.



Did you know that in Japan no one talks about critical days? And the package from gaskets does not rustle at all, so as not to confuse others. It's as if it doesn't exist, and it's not customary to cook about it. Girls have a few days off for these cases, they can take a day off and not explain anything to anyone. On the one hand, it's a plus. On the other hand, absurd. And how and who discusses this topic with children, how they feel when girls first have critical days. Imagine that poor child panic.

Sweating underarms in a woman or wet from sweat shorts cause others to grin. And women themselves feel uncomfortable, try to avoid such situations by any means. That's why they come up with stupid life hacks with pads for clothes to hide stains from sweat. What's the big deal?



“A woman is not a woman unless she wears shoes on a stud.” And preferably at the stove, and necessarily with a full parade, well, you can just in shoes, say shameless men who would not pass a day on a high heel. Comfortable shoes do not stretch visually the silhouette, as do sandals on a stud. Therefore, every woman keeps just in case a pair of uncomfortable, but very beautiful shoes on the way out to be in the eyes of the true lady around.



In a world where new ideas, styles are constantly being born, fashion becomes more and more extravagant every year, the ideal girl can not afford to wear what she wants. You put on an oversise sweater -- you're fat, you pick a shortened T-shirt -- are you coming off the beach? In a long skirt you are a nun, and in a short skirt you are the indecent opposite. And so on and so forth. People, aw! Really?



Some girls just enjoy the daily rituals. But the sooner you start using decorative cosmetics, the sooner the skin of the face will age. This is the choice of every woman. Or not? Instead of letting the skin breathe and not spending hours marathoning, women feel uncomfortable if they don’t make up their eyelashes and mask all the imperfections. What if someone finds out that I’m not like the picture on Instagram?



It is necessary to remove hair on the face and body, you are not a monkey. And how many people earn money by removing indecent female vegetation! And those who decide not to shave their armpits or legs are mercilessly condemned. Can a woman have a choice? Yeah, maybe be shaved or ridiculed.



So it happened that social networks kindle in us excitement and the desire to become better, more beautiful, fit. Fewer people go to the gym for health and more for beauty. At any cost, just to remove the belly. Over time, some women realize that they are comfortable without pumped abs. And this causes resentment of society. If you lost a few pounds, you're good. Although, wait, you're wearing these pounds, so you're not doing well. A closed circle.



It’s shameful and wrong to take care of yourself when you’re a mom. First, take care of the children and husband, and then everything else. But in a frenzied rhythm and constant household affairs, a woman ceases to be what she was before marriage and the birth of children. She forgets her desires and aspirations, and then teaches it to her children.



Be nice to yourself. Do not listen to anyone who does not share your point of view and does not see in your comfort neither shame nor conscience, do not let society rot. You are a person, you have the right to be imperfect, not makeup. You can be lush or slim, wear branded clothes or costumes from sales. The main thing is not to waste yourself on others, to protect your delicate nature from someone else’s opinion. Also, please do not stereotype your children. Maybe then they'll be a little happier and freer than we are.