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Husband reports to mother even for changing bed linen
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A friend recently told me about her relationship with her husband. And I was, to put it mildly, very surprised. Turns out Tanya -- handymanThe ones I've heard so much about. It never occurred to me how such people lived and how they felt.
Comfortable man Tanya is a very good person. Really good. She married after 25, and there were no problems in the couple. She and her husband had to get used to each other. Tatiana and Vasily grew up in completely different families.
Accordingly, the attitude to life was different. Vasya lived all his life in the house where his mother cooked everything for him, cleaned up after him and took care of him in every possible way. Family life for him was a little different than he imagined.
From the very first week of living together, the couple had tradition. Every Sunday they spent with their mother and father Vasily. Tanya and her parents were not so close and came out to them only occasionally. She had to help her mother on Sunday. Vasily went to his place alone.
After this incident, Tanya learned a lot about herself from her husband’s mother. It turns out Vasya constantly talking to herTalking about all the details of family life. He also tells her about the problems he has with his wife. As soon as Tanya did not come to her husband’s parents and ceased to be a comfortable person, accusations immediately fell on her.
To be honest with you, I was surprised to hear that. A man after 25 who runs to his mother for every family issue Sounds like he's completely immature and doesn't understand. How adult relationships work. In addition, if there are any problems in a couple, it is advisable to talk about them with your partner, rather than remain silent.
Shouldn’t your partner be the first person to talk to about your relationship and everything that happens? If this person is his mother, then perhaps he is still. early in adulthood? Such a strong attachment to parents can say a lot.
There's nothing wrong with that, but I feel sorry for Tanya. She's paired with Vasily. You have to be comfortable.Who does everything for others. She has to be a “mom” to her husband, otherwise he will not be satisfied. But that's not the essence of an adult relationship between two people, is it?
Comfortable man Tanya is a very good person. Really good. She married after 25, and there were no problems in the couple. She and her husband had to get used to each other. Tatiana and Vasily grew up in completely different families.
Accordingly, the attitude to life was different. Vasya lived all his life in the house where his mother cooked everything for him, cleaned up after him and took care of him in every possible way. Family life for him was a little different than he imagined.
From the very first week of living together, the couple had tradition. Every Sunday they spent with their mother and father Vasily. Tanya and her parents were not so close and came out to them only occasionally. She had to help her mother on Sunday. Vasily went to his place alone.
After this incident, Tanya learned a lot about herself from her husband’s mother. It turns out Vasya constantly talking to herTalking about all the details of family life. He also tells her about the problems he has with his wife. As soon as Tanya did not come to her husband’s parents and ceased to be a comfortable person, accusations immediately fell on her.
To be honest with you, I was surprised to hear that. A man after 25 who runs to his mother for every family issue Sounds like he's completely immature and doesn't understand. How adult relationships work. In addition, if there are any problems in a couple, it is advisable to talk about them with your partner, rather than remain silent.
Shouldn’t your partner be the first person to talk to about your relationship and everything that happens? If this person is his mother, then perhaps he is still. early in adulthood? Such a strong attachment to parents can say a lot.
There's nothing wrong with that, but I feel sorry for Tanya. She's paired with Vasily. You have to be comfortable.Who does everything for others. She has to be a “mom” to her husband, otherwise he will not be satisfied. But that's not the essence of an adult relationship between two people, is it?
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