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On what tete-a-tete with a man a decent woman will never agree
Single girls sometimes want something interesting and magical. Especially in spring. But date Not always what you need for a good evening. Sometimes such campaigns can be crowned with disappointments, negativity and resentment. And so that this does not happen, we will try to tell you which men to walk in the evening is definitely not worth it.
Of course, we make our own happiness. But why waste time and waste time?
It happens that a young man does not come on a date on time. It takes 5 minutes, then 10, and he's gone. It would seem an ordinary situation, but it will negatively affect the mood of the whole event. First, everyone has phones and social media. Calling, warning about such force majeure is not difficult. We will not take into account absolutely fantastic circumstances, when "the battery on the phone is down, and there is nowhere to charge."
Secondly, some men in this way immediately want to make it clear how they treat you. Not really. I'm sorry, honey, it's the girls who follow me, not me. You want to wait. It is better to immediately stop communicating with such people, because, be sure, they are only flowers.
There is nothing wrong with the fact that a man or a guy will invite you to a meeting not in a cafe, but in a park or square, just walk. Maybe he's just a romantic and interested in getting to know you. Or, for example, if you are both young students, they may not have enough cash with them. This is also correctable, not everyone has rich parents.
However, if you are asked to make your way through snowdrifts late at night to “breathe some fresh air, holding hands” – leave. There are many places that serve cheap coffee or tea. Not to invite your companion at least there is a rather obvious bell. Why spend time with someone who is not willing to make such “sacrifices”?
If you feel like your date doesn't know where he's going, this date doesn't bode well. Going to a place with fatty kitchen and greasy kids? Well, that's an option. Or, for example, in a nightclub, where the sound of speakers tears the eardrums. Maybe your boyfriend likes noisy parties, yeah, but then he didn't ask you out, he just wanted to show off in front of his friends.
By the way, this moment rocks not only guys, but also girls. There are many stories when a young man spent a long time preparing for the first meeting with a beautiful girl, and she dragged him to a bar where everyone knows her. This is a common waste of time and nerves. Try not to be like this and at least be interested in the interests of a possible gentleman.
In the vast majority of cases, these guys are too self-confident or even the ones you ask for a date. Of course, not everyone, but there are cases. They're too lazy to go somewhere, it's better that you come to their neighborhood by yourself. Going out, walking, or listening to your talk? No, he will burden you with talking about his life, and then he will wash away if his friends call him and ask him to meet.
Such a character is very easy to determine by appearance: dirty, crumpled clothes, lack of hairstyle, look is directed anywhere, but not at your eyes. He won't keep up the subject or, at least out of politeness, laugh at your jokes. In short, it's hard to understand why he even came. Apparently there's nothing to do.
Usually such men appear by chance. For example, friends can buzz all their ears, how cool it is. Or parents with admiration in the eyes will “match” an unfamiliar guy. And he has taste, and money, and a good man in himself. So why is he alone without a couple? In our time of active social life, such men are torn off with their hands. There's something about him that bothers you. But maybe we should try.
Don't be afraid, but just listen to our advice. Take a can of gas with you and ask your friend to call you back in a couple of hours to ask you how you're doing. Bring some cash with you, so you can have enough for both. Don't be afraid, these are just warnings. Sometimes the first impression of a person is wrong. Maybe he's a good guy, just unlucky, or does his perfume look bad? Who knows...
In any case, try to keep the date under control. If you like the young man, do not worry and have a good time. On the other hand, it is always possible to refer to poor health and go home by taxi. Respect yourself and make thoughtful decisions. Time will put everything in its place.
Of course, we make our own happiness. But why waste time and waste time?
It happens that a young man does not come on a date on time. It takes 5 minutes, then 10, and he's gone. It would seem an ordinary situation, but it will negatively affect the mood of the whole event. First, everyone has phones and social media. Calling, warning about such force majeure is not difficult. We will not take into account absolutely fantastic circumstances, when "the battery on the phone is down, and there is nowhere to charge."
Secondly, some men in this way immediately want to make it clear how they treat you. Not really. I'm sorry, honey, it's the girls who follow me, not me. You want to wait. It is better to immediately stop communicating with such people, because, be sure, they are only flowers.
There is nothing wrong with the fact that a man or a guy will invite you to a meeting not in a cafe, but in a park or square, just walk. Maybe he's just a romantic and interested in getting to know you. Or, for example, if you are both young students, they may not have enough cash with them. This is also correctable, not everyone has rich parents.
However, if you are asked to make your way through snowdrifts late at night to “breathe some fresh air, holding hands” – leave. There are many places that serve cheap coffee or tea. Not to invite your companion at least there is a rather obvious bell. Why spend time with someone who is not willing to make such “sacrifices”?
If you feel like your date doesn't know where he's going, this date doesn't bode well. Going to a place with fatty kitchen and greasy kids? Well, that's an option. Or, for example, in a nightclub, where the sound of speakers tears the eardrums. Maybe your boyfriend likes noisy parties, yeah, but then he didn't ask you out, he just wanted to show off in front of his friends.
By the way, this moment rocks not only guys, but also girls. There are many stories when a young man spent a long time preparing for the first meeting with a beautiful girl, and she dragged him to a bar where everyone knows her. This is a common waste of time and nerves. Try not to be like this and at least be interested in the interests of a possible gentleman.
In the vast majority of cases, these guys are too self-confident or even the ones you ask for a date. Of course, not everyone, but there are cases. They're too lazy to go somewhere, it's better that you come to their neighborhood by yourself. Going out, walking, or listening to your talk? No, he will burden you with talking about his life, and then he will wash away if his friends call him and ask him to meet.
Such a character is very easy to determine by appearance: dirty, crumpled clothes, lack of hairstyle, look is directed anywhere, but not at your eyes. He won't keep up the subject or, at least out of politeness, laugh at your jokes. In short, it's hard to understand why he even came. Apparently there's nothing to do.
Usually such men appear by chance. For example, friends can buzz all their ears, how cool it is. Or parents with admiration in the eyes will “match” an unfamiliar guy. And he has taste, and money, and a good man in himself. So why is he alone without a couple? In our time of active social life, such men are torn off with their hands. There's something about him that bothers you. But maybe we should try.
Don't be afraid, but just listen to our advice. Take a can of gas with you and ask your friend to call you back in a couple of hours to ask you how you're doing. Bring some cash with you, so you can have enough for both. Don't be afraid, these are just warnings. Sometimes the first impression of a person is wrong. Maybe he's a good guy, just unlucky, or does his perfume look bad? Who knows...
In any case, try to keep the date under control. If you like the young man, do not worry and have a good time. On the other hand, it is always possible to refer to poor health and go home by taxi. Respect yourself and make thoughtful decisions. Time will put everything in its place.
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