Enviable grooms in an active search are not ready to marry a woman with a child and will happily justify it

Relationships of Modern People Very different from what was once considered normal. It's probably a natural process. After all, the change of generations inevitably leads to changes in all areas of life, and especially in personal life.



The story we are going to tell is a reflection of today’s reality. You will learn what the ideal girl should be in the eyes of a modern man in active search. I wonder how quickly he can find the one.

In 2 years I will be 40 years old. Over the years, I have found a dream job where I earn a decent salary. I have a car that I have paid off the loan. I am planning to solve the housing problem soon. By modern standards, I look very good: I study in the hall, try to monitor my nutrition and go to the barbershop. Don't think I'm bragging. I want to outline my life so you know what I mean.

The thing is, I'm still alone. Although there are so many girls around, I couldn’t find the one. I want to settle down and start a family. Of course, I have requirements that a girl must meet. But that's normal, isn't it?



I am not ready to marry a woman if she already has a child. It would be ideal for this marriage to be the first for me and my wife. I want her not to be very experienced in love relationships.

I've met with experienced, let's call them, women. Every time it was like a battle. Such ladies are very tough and demanding, they seem to resent all the men in this world. I don't want that.



I admit, until the age of 30, I led a rather loose lifestyle. For a long time next to one girl I did not stay, sometimes I did not even remember the names. But then it passed... I wanted to get married, have children. When I started looking at women, I realized they were very selective. I think primarily with my mind, not my heart.

A portrait of an ideal woman, but I want more feelings. Sincere and ardent. I’m ready to give it if my wife deserves it. I want my girlfriend to be sweet and gentle, very kind. She should not depend on me financially and think only about my money. Ideally, this is a person who wants to constantly develop. I want to be interesting with this woman.



I want to live with a woman under the same roof. Let's lead together: I can clean and she can cook. I love homemade food made with love. Of course, sometimes you can go to a restaurant or order something at home. I’m always ready to go if my girlfriend gets tired.

Of course, I want to meet a beautiful and well-groomed woman. Men love their eyes, and that’s true. My ideal is a nice-smelling slim blonde with a good sense of style. I like when a girl has long hair, manicure is always fresh, light makeup. What a figure... I believe that a healthy woman can not have flabby skin with cellulite!



Unfortunately, modern girls are lazy, do not want to watch themselves. They don't want to give birth either. And I dream of 3-4 children. I'm willing to help my wife any way I can. I don’t think there could be any problems with that at all. Children are just children.

Now I often meet girls on the Internet. I do not read their profiles in principle. Why? We'll meet and see. However, it does not go beyond one date. The woman does not look like in the photo, then begins to make demands.



I just ask the ladies how they see the relationship, what a man should be. I get a whole list of wishes. And sometimes a girl can say that I was not in her taste. Since when did girls start acting like this? I don’t know if I’ll ever get married...

From the editorial board Well, a hard case... “In someone else’s eye we see a mote, and in our own we do not notice a log” is a phrase that perfectly describes this man. How foolish it is to accuse all women of being too demanding and to make things worse. The saddest thing is that people just don’t realize it.



I'm afraid he'll spend a long time wandering around in search of a faithful wife, whom he will never find. And if luck smiles at him, it is likely that this lady will leave him sooner or later. What do you think?

They shared their impressions in the comments. I'm sure you'll want to speak out after that story. Moreover, such cases are now found everywhere. What do you think?