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Labkowski reveals why we still like bad guys
Mikhail Alexandrovich Labkovsky masterfully solves the most intricate cases from the lives of women and men. Some of his reasoning seems eerily rational. But we still doubt whether we can make the right decision in a difficult situation or whether something will prevent us from doing it.
It's something. It's us. Being honest with yourself, you can see how easy it is to make a decision. To give up an unloved business, divorce a cheating husband and try to start all over again. Nothing is impossible while we are alive. Today's edition. "Site" will tell What kind of man does a woman need?Why people are afraid to break up with a partner who condemns them to an unhappy relationship.
Mikhail Labkovsky commented on the incident that occurred during one of his lectures in Israel: The topic was devoted to love and intimacy with a partner. A girl stood up and told a story from her life. It turned out that she is in a difficult neurotic relationship with a man. He often disappears, and when he appears at home, he begins to figure out relationships and get on his nerves. Warning me why she still hadn’t left him, the girl blushed and said, “But he’s so good in bed, Michael.” I don’t think I can find a lover as passionate as him.
This year, hundreds of refugees from Eritrea arrived in Israel, as far as I know. Then Mikhail Labkovsky decided to explain why this happened. After all, the topic is not new, and women still hold on to unworthy men for various reasons. Physical intimacy with a partner plays a very important role in a healthy and strong relationship.
“There are no unique people, understand that this is only an exclusive attitude towards a given man of a particular woman. Of course, there are more or less temperamental people. Agree on some preferences with a partner is not so difficult. Truth be told, it is not her man’s passion that holds this girl, but his unhealthy attitude toward her. Because of this behavior, the girl became attached to the other side of the relationship, because it gives her drive and emotional swing.
Why a woman stays with an unworthy man In fact, everything is in our heads. A person’s libido is formed in childhood. From this in the future depends on our attitude to the partner. If a person understands that everything is in his head, then he is aware of his desires and needs.
“Awareness is an important component of a healthy relationship. Often passion clouds the mind and does not allow you to build a strong relationship with a person. It is important to understand that your partner is your choice, not the will of God.
If in childhood, the relationship with parents was built on fear, conflict and pain, this is what women will look for in men. This has nothing to do with proximity.
To cope with the oppressive situation, you need to let yourself know that it is not a man, but yourself. If a woman doesn’t like something, she should say it.
And if her husband does not listen to her, then it is time to leave him. And do not forgive over and over again his infidelity or indecent behavior. Do not tolerate rudeness and insults. It seems that every woman wants to be with a beautiful and kind guy who will also be an excellent lover, and will never betray. Be honest with yourself, but what if you don’t want a prince like that?
The most important thing is to find the strength to face the truth. You can’t be with someone who doesn’t respect you and have an unbearable relationship. Do not be afraid to leave in the past what does not bring more joy. We may be preventing ourselves from being happy. And to deal with the tangled tangle of thoughts in your head, it is a trip to a psychologist that can be the starting point for your true happiness.
It's something. It's us. Being honest with yourself, you can see how easy it is to make a decision. To give up an unloved business, divorce a cheating husband and try to start all over again. Nothing is impossible while we are alive. Today's edition. "Site" will tell What kind of man does a woman need?Why people are afraid to break up with a partner who condemns them to an unhappy relationship.
Mikhail Labkovsky commented on the incident that occurred during one of his lectures in Israel: The topic was devoted to love and intimacy with a partner. A girl stood up and told a story from her life. It turned out that she is in a difficult neurotic relationship with a man. He often disappears, and when he appears at home, he begins to figure out relationships and get on his nerves. Warning me why she still hadn’t left him, the girl blushed and said, “But he’s so good in bed, Michael.” I don’t think I can find a lover as passionate as him.
This year, hundreds of refugees from Eritrea arrived in Israel, as far as I know. Then Mikhail Labkovsky decided to explain why this happened. After all, the topic is not new, and women still hold on to unworthy men for various reasons. Physical intimacy with a partner plays a very important role in a healthy and strong relationship.
“There are no unique people, understand that this is only an exclusive attitude towards a given man of a particular woman. Of course, there are more or less temperamental people. Agree on some preferences with a partner is not so difficult. Truth be told, it is not her man’s passion that holds this girl, but his unhealthy attitude toward her. Because of this behavior, the girl became attached to the other side of the relationship, because it gives her drive and emotional swing.
Why a woman stays with an unworthy man In fact, everything is in our heads. A person’s libido is formed in childhood. From this in the future depends on our attitude to the partner. If a person understands that everything is in his head, then he is aware of his desires and needs.
“Awareness is an important component of a healthy relationship. Often passion clouds the mind and does not allow you to build a strong relationship with a person. It is important to understand that your partner is your choice, not the will of God.
If in childhood, the relationship with parents was built on fear, conflict and pain, this is what women will look for in men. This has nothing to do with proximity.
To cope with the oppressive situation, you need to let yourself know that it is not a man, but yourself. If a woman doesn’t like something, she should say it.
And if her husband does not listen to her, then it is time to leave him. And do not forgive over and over again his infidelity or indecent behavior. Do not tolerate rudeness and insults. It seems that every woman wants to be with a beautiful and kind guy who will also be an excellent lover, and will never betray. Be honest with yourself, but what if you don’t want a prince like that?
The most important thing is to find the strength to face the truth. You can’t be with someone who doesn’t respect you and have an unbearable relationship. Do not be afraid to leave in the past what does not bring more joy. We may be preventing ourselves from being happy. And to deal with the tangled tangle of thoughts in your head, it is a trip to a psychologist that can be the starting point for your true happiness.
