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Why Women Should Wake Up Early and Make Breakfast
A person, even in adulthood, can begin to new-life. When the past moves aside in order to turn into a decent, happy future. Of course, you often have to sacrifice something and make a deal with your conscience. But happiness and inner peace are worth it.
No matter how others react to such a decision, life should be lived first for yourself. And do not regret what was done in any case. Otherwise, in old age, you will begin to remember some bright moments from life, and they do not exist.
With Katya stopped communicating even parents. It’s because she dared to “do it.”
To begin with, perhaps, it is necessary with the fact that Katya has in fact long passed to the rank of Catherine, since she was 52 years old, she was the mother of 2 children and the grandmother of one grandson - a cute little karapuz.
Among the brothers and sisters, she was the oldest, so by the age of 16 she had extensive experience in raising children, cleaning the house and a little more on all sorts of trifles. What she couldn't do was multiply two-digit numbers and write beautifully. There was always some kind of doodle. Well, what's with? village-schoolHowever, it was not always possible to get into lessons.
As it turned out, the parents secretly wanted Katya to stay with them until old age, and then help them with the housework. Why, we will teach the younger ones, send them into life, and let the older one look after us. But what dominion will she get alone, almost in the center of the village!
But it turned out that Katya realized this at a young age and at all costs decided to leave the “native nest”. Under any pretext, she tried to move away from the village to the city. Buy medicines, clothes for a brother or sister, find a part-time job for the winter. And in the end, she got her way.
Ivan was an ordinary guy from the outskirts, but Kate was anyway. Literally confessing to him in love on the second day of meeting, the girl moved to live with him. Six months later, they had a wedding, and in the native village of Katy. The parents even blessed, and the younger sisters were wildly jealous. And family life began.
Life at Katya was probably easier than at home, but not sugar. In addition to cleaning, washing and cooking, the young woman still managed to work as a saleswoman in a stall near the house. The money is small, but the family budget is replenished. And then she got pregnant.
The firstborn was named after the pope. Shkodny boy, strong and healthy. Then a daughter, Nastya, was born. Also, a beautiful little angel who delighted his parents with his beauty.
Katya now cooked for three, at the same time and cleaned, washed and so on. The children did not grow up as she would like: fatherhood She did not go in vain, and was perceived more as a housekeeper. At the same time, she went to the offices in the evenings, so to speak, so as not to “cool down” at home on the sofa. Years passed.
Kate is 51. She wakes up at 6 a.m. to make breakfast for her husband, while listening to criticism about undercooked omelets and burnt coffee. Then she prepares food for her son and daughter, who at least have breakfast in silence. At the end, she warms up the milk for her granddaughter. For breakfast at Katie's. tea.
Then comes the time to wash or clean the apartment. A little rest, and it's time to go clean the offices. In the evening, you need to come home on time to cook dinner and perhaps sit with your granddaughter, if necessary. So why did everyone stop talking to Katya, including her parents?
A week later, she meets a man in the same office. Single, not young, but doing well. Asking her out after work. There makes her the following offer: she stays with him, and he does everything in his power to ensure that she never again cleans from strangers. This is a time of new life.
It turns out that he is a former military man, a widower and he has his own small business. He watched Katya for a long time, but for the first time decided to approach her only after 9 months.
After a few days, Catherine agrees. She just doesn’t come home in the evening, and after a couple of days, she calls her former home and tells her husband everything as it is. He's not even responding. The son is silent on the phone for a long time and finally puts it down. Only the daughter calls back and tries to talk. It all comes down to the fact that the mother just has to sit at least a couple of times a week with her granddaughter. Now the conversation is interrupted by Catherine.
Divorce, severance of relations with all relatives, including mother and father. Then a small wedding, rather painting and dinner in a restaurant and... new life. Evgeny is used to cooking himself, but he also likes to pamper his wife with all sorts of unusual dishes. The house is full of modern technology, so it remains just to press the buttons, and the clothes are washed themselves, the robot vacuum cleaner is cleaning, and for dinner there will be a great piece of cutting, which you only need to have time to turn over half an hour before the end of cooking.
For the first time in her life, a woman feels satisfied. Parents will sort out their lives: they still have children. Her husband has long lost interest in her. And the kids grew up. The granddaughter is a little sorry, but she has a mother who, in case of anything, will make herself felt, Catherine was sure of this. Well, it remains to enjoy life and dream about the future.
Congratulating a woman, pitying her or, conversely, condemning her is probably a subjective matter. Everyone will choose for themselves which side to take. We think Catherine deserves to rest in adulthood, and do not care how her family react. They used to. overlooked His presence, so what has changed now?
No matter how others react to such a decision, life should be lived first for yourself. And do not regret what was done in any case. Otherwise, in old age, you will begin to remember some bright moments from life, and they do not exist.
With Katya stopped communicating even parents. It’s because she dared to “do it.”
To begin with, perhaps, it is necessary with the fact that Katya has in fact long passed to the rank of Catherine, since she was 52 years old, she was the mother of 2 children and the grandmother of one grandson - a cute little karapuz.
Among the brothers and sisters, she was the oldest, so by the age of 16 she had extensive experience in raising children, cleaning the house and a little more on all sorts of trifles. What she couldn't do was multiply two-digit numbers and write beautifully. There was always some kind of doodle. Well, what's with? village-schoolHowever, it was not always possible to get into lessons.
As it turned out, the parents secretly wanted Katya to stay with them until old age, and then help them with the housework. Why, we will teach the younger ones, send them into life, and let the older one look after us. But what dominion will she get alone, almost in the center of the village!
But it turned out that Katya realized this at a young age and at all costs decided to leave the “native nest”. Under any pretext, she tried to move away from the village to the city. Buy medicines, clothes for a brother or sister, find a part-time job for the winter. And in the end, she got her way.
Ivan was an ordinary guy from the outskirts, but Kate was anyway. Literally confessing to him in love on the second day of meeting, the girl moved to live with him. Six months later, they had a wedding, and in the native village of Katy. The parents even blessed, and the younger sisters were wildly jealous. And family life began.
Life at Katya was probably easier than at home, but not sugar. In addition to cleaning, washing and cooking, the young woman still managed to work as a saleswoman in a stall near the house. The money is small, but the family budget is replenished. And then she got pregnant.
The firstborn was named after the pope. Shkodny boy, strong and healthy. Then a daughter, Nastya, was born. Also, a beautiful little angel who delighted his parents with his beauty.
Katya now cooked for three, at the same time and cleaned, washed and so on. The children did not grow up as she would like: fatherhood She did not go in vain, and was perceived more as a housekeeper. At the same time, she went to the offices in the evenings, so to speak, so as not to “cool down” at home on the sofa. Years passed.
Kate is 51. She wakes up at 6 a.m. to make breakfast for her husband, while listening to criticism about undercooked omelets and burnt coffee. Then she prepares food for her son and daughter, who at least have breakfast in silence. At the end, she warms up the milk for her granddaughter. For breakfast at Katie's. tea.
Then comes the time to wash or clean the apartment. A little rest, and it's time to go clean the offices. In the evening, you need to come home on time to cook dinner and perhaps sit with your granddaughter, if necessary. So why did everyone stop talking to Katya, including her parents?
A week later, she meets a man in the same office. Single, not young, but doing well. Asking her out after work. There makes her the following offer: she stays with him, and he does everything in his power to ensure that she never again cleans from strangers. This is a time of new life.
It turns out that he is a former military man, a widower and he has his own small business. He watched Katya for a long time, but for the first time decided to approach her only after 9 months.
After a few days, Catherine agrees. She just doesn’t come home in the evening, and after a couple of days, she calls her former home and tells her husband everything as it is. He's not even responding. The son is silent on the phone for a long time and finally puts it down. Only the daughter calls back and tries to talk. It all comes down to the fact that the mother just has to sit at least a couple of times a week with her granddaughter. Now the conversation is interrupted by Catherine.
Divorce, severance of relations with all relatives, including mother and father. Then a small wedding, rather painting and dinner in a restaurant and... new life. Evgeny is used to cooking himself, but he also likes to pamper his wife with all sorts of unusual dishes. The house is full of modern technology, so it remains just to press the buttons, and the clothes are washed themselves, the robot vacuum cleaner is cleaning, and for dinner there will be a great piece of cutting, which you only need to have time to turn over half an hour before the end of cooking.
For the first time in her life, a woman feels satisfied. Parents will sort out their lives: they still have children. Her husband has long lost interest in her. And the kids grew up. The granddaughter is a little sorry, but she has a mother who, in case of anything, will make herself felt, Catherine was sure of this. Well, it remains to enjoy life and dream about the future.
Congratulating a woman, pitying her or, conversely, condemning her is probably a subjective matter. Everyone will choose for themselves which side to take. We think Catherine deserves to rest in adulthood, and do not care how her family react. They used to. overlooked His presence, so what has changed now?
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