How the trip to Egypt angered the mother-in-law so that she did not let her son on the doorstep

“The trip to Egypt was unforgettable last year. There my boyfriend proposed to me. We came back so happy from vacation, we saved money together. Only the mother of the groom was against the marriage, writes upset Lena.



I suspected that Lesha would propose to me. We've been together for three years, we're 22, and we're crazy about each other. Six months we saved up for a long-awaited vacation, and Lesha wanted to make it unforgettable. That's what happened. I was in seventh heaven until we visited his mother after the trip.



For two years we live together in rented housing, study and work part-time. Parents help: the preservation will pass, then a little money. My parents live out of town. They love Lesha very much, not at all against me getting married at 22. My mother always said that she and her father also started from scratch, together it is always easier.



After the holidays, we went to visit Lesha’s parents, he said that they were looking forward to us. I was happy because I knew it was time to get along with my husband. It wasn’t until we arrived that everything was as colorful as I expected.”



Mom Lesha is divorced, it turned out that once again she got along with some middle-aged boyfriend. At night she could not dispose of us, even tea was not really drunk. Leshin's brother lives nearby, so we went to see him. The next day, Lesha’s mother came and said that it was too early for him to get married.

She believes that the son is obliged to help the mother financially until he himself has a family. In her opinion, Lesha must first graduate from university and bring money to her house for several years. Her father left her with young children 15 years ago. Since then, the mother has high hopes that her sons will not treat her like their father.



Lesha does not abandon her mother, but just wants to start a family. She also remembered her trip to Egypt. Indignantly counted how much money we threw away on vacation, they say, it would be better to spend this money to fix her leaky roof. Yeah, it's leaking, but what does this have to do with us? We did not take money for the trip, and the mother-in-law is not old, she is only 45 years old. Nothing prevents her from getting a job. But why if it is provided by his son and gentlemen?



After we announced our decision to sign, my mother-in-law stated that we would not receive blessings from her. Without a blessing, there will be no happiness in the family. I'm very upset, I don't know why she didn't like me.