10 cruel laws of love that can not be circumvented

Any relationship changes over time. The longer you are together, the more changes occur. Some of them can be frightening or disturbing, but when you look at them, it becomes clear that they are a new step in your love.

Website Take a look at the 10 laws of love that all couples face.

10. Trust is a terribly fragile thing



All relationships are built on trust, and sometimes this foundation begins to seem unshakable. This is a dangerous and deceptive feeling: the trust of a spouse can be lost in an instant.

9. Sometimes you will be bored together



In dreams, the perfect couple does everything together, lovers have common interests and they are never bored. In life, sometimes you are more interested in a book or meeting with friends than an evening with a loved one. This does not mean that you are distant; rest quietly separately, and soon you will again be more pleasant joint leisure.

8. You won't always be on the same side



Even if you unanimously make all the important decisions, sooner or later there will come a point when you find yourself on opposite sides of the barricades in a matter of principle. It is important not to get angry with your other half and find a way out of the situation together.

7. Marriage and children are not the solution, but the trial



Many people mistakenly believe that marriage will strengthen the relationship or that children will bring the spouses closer together. But both in marriage and in parenthood, the couple is tested for strength. And there's nothing criminal about it. You learn to be a good partner and parent, just as you learned to ride a bicycle: it happens and falls, but then get high.

6. You won't always feel attracted



Wild passion accompanies lovers only at first. Then it is replaced by a quieter intimate life, and may even turn into a difficult situation. The main thing is not to despair and not to think that you are not made for each other, everything can be fixed.

5. Each of you will sometimes be lonely



It seems that relationships and especially marriage are the opposite of loneliness, but this is not quite true. Sometimes you will still be lonely, it will seem that no one understands and is not interested in your affairs. These thoughts occur to all people, regardless of their marital status.

4. You will be visited by doubtful thoughts



“Should I divorce?” or “What if it would be better with someone else?” – such thoughts can creep into the head of the happiest of women. Especially at night or alone. But don’t give them any more importance than the question, “What would my life be like if I were born in France?”

3. Sometimes you lose the sense of connection



Sometimes you feel like you, your destiny, your heart is tightly connected to your loved one. Sometimes that connection seems to disappear. This is normal, and the cause is most often banal fatigue.

2. You'll hurt each other



No one hurts more than a lover. And you take his words much closer to your heart, and the partner himself can hit the most painful place in the heat of a quarrel, knowing your pain points well. So it's gonna hurt. You and him. The main thing is to deal with this immediately, and not to accumulate resentment until it bursts.

1. Love will not survive on its own



We are constantly reminded that “to love” is a verb. Action, not just feeling. Relationships always need to be worked on. Together, of course: if one partner can pull love on himself, then, alas, not for long.

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