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Irena Bar: Age 40+ turned out to be quite problematic
Age 40-60 turned out to be... a little out of business, in terms of information about fashion and style.The fact is that as soon as I crossed the 50-year milestone myself, I began to see and hear more and more around me, as well as to meet all sorts of arguments on the Internet and other media about how adult women should look. I don’t want to talk about this regularly with clients.
Discussions are conducted on all fronts: starting in principle with the question: at what age a person in general, and a woman in particular, can already be considered an adult, and ending with all sorts of rules and regulations for those over 30.
Warning of possible questions: yes, we'll be talking more about women here. But! This does not mean that men do not have such a problem - just, unfortunately, they are diligently learning to ignore it.
Let’s first decide who I’m going to call a grown woman. Because in this context, we are not talking about the fact that an 18-year-old girl can be an adult and a 60-year-old woman can be an infantile.
If you're still 18 in the shower and over 50 in the mirror, there's something wrong with the conservatory.First of all, it is necessary to deal with the “broken clock”. But it's a long and complicated process. Like any process of self-acceptance.
So we're going to start with a simple one: adult by age, not by degree of personal development, I'm going to count women over 40 on passports. At the same time, let’s agree that “for 40” does not mean “from 40 to 120”. I believe that 40 and 70 are different age groups with different physical and psychological limitations.
So by "adult," I mean a woman in her 40s or 60s. Which does not prevent me from bearing in mind the women who have long since crossed this line, but still arouse in me delight and awe.
By the way, have you noticed how much information you can find on the Internet today about those who are over 70? How many gorgeous, positive, and simply beautiful women over the age of 70, or even 80, have become popular models? Thanks to the wonderful Ari Seth Cohen, who gave impetus to this topic, chic elderly women can now cause admiration not only in the close circle, but also pose for photo shoots in fashion magazines. Like 86-year-old Daphne Selfe or the stunningly stylish women in Fabulous Fashionistas.
The ages of 40 to 60 have been quite problematic. So... a little out of business in terms of information about fashion and style. Because he fell exactly in the middle between his youth and old age.
What's really going on? On the one hand, they are quite young and active women. Because of this, their lifestyle is not much different from the lifestyle of those who are slightly over 30. And the figures of many 50-year-olds today are such that some 30-year-olds did not dream.Moreover, young men regularly show interest in them, and not only for the purpose of “talking”.
On the other hand, no matter how much your face, you cannot hide your age. Believe me, I have seen a lot of women using the latest medical advances in this field. The bottom line is, at 50, you still look 50. All right, well, let's get 45 if that makes any difference. What is it: with a hamstringed face you look more neat and well-groomed than with a face untouched by the hands of beauticians, you can not argue with this.
So the poor 40-60-year-olds rush in search of images suitable for their own worldview: from “young sexy beauties” to “nothing will help anyway.” published
© Irena Bar
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: theageofhappiness.com/posts/irena-bar-vozrast-40-60-okazalsya-nasegodnyashniy-den-dovolno-problemnym/5eeef7ad884
Discussions are conducted on all fronts: starting in principle with the question: at what age a person in general, and a woman in particular, can already be considered an adult, and ending with all sorts of rules and regulations for those over 30.
Warning of possible questions: yes, we'll be talking more about women here. But! This does not mean that men do not have such a problem - just, unfortunately, they are diligently learning to ignore it.
Let’s first decide who I’m going to call a grown woman. Because in this context, we are not talking about the fact that an 18-year-old girl can be an adult and a 60-year-old woman can be an infantile.
If you're still 18 in the shower and over 50 in the mirror, there's something wrong with the conservatory.First of all, it is necessary to deal with the “broken clock”. But it's a long and complicated process. Like any process of self-acceptance.
So we're going to start with a simple one: adult by age, not by degree of personal development, I'm going to count women over 40 on passports. At the same time, let’s agree that “for 40” does not mean “from 40 to 120”. I believe that 40 and 70 are different age groups with different physical and psychological limitations.
So by "adult," I mean a woman in her 40s or 60s. Which does not prevent me from bearing in mind the women who have long since crossed this line, but still arouse in me delight and awe.
By the way, have you noticed how much information you can find on the Internet today about those who are over 70? How many gorgeous, positive, and simply beautiful women over the age of 70, or even 80, have become popular models? Thanks to the wonderful Ari Seth Cohen, who gave impetus to this topic, chic elderly women can now cause admiration not only in the close circle, but also pose for photo shoots in fashion magazines. Like 86-year-old Daphne Selfe or the stunningly stylish women in Fabulous Fashionistas.
The ages of 40 to 60 have been quite problematic. So... a little out of business in terms of information about fashion and style. Because he fell exactly in the middle between his youth and old age.
What's really going on? On the one hand, they are quite young and active women. Because of this, their lifestyle is not much different from the lifestyle of those who are slightly over 30. And the figures of many 50-year-olds today are such that some 30-year-olds did not dream.Moreover, young men regularly show interest in them, and not only for the purpose of “talking”.
On the other hand, no matter how much your face, you cannot hide your age. Believe me, I have seen a lot of women using the latest medical advances in this field. The bottom line is, at 50, you still look 50. All right, well, let's get 45 if that makes any difference. What is it: with a hamstringed face you look more neat and well-groomed than with a face untouched by the hands of beauticians, you can not argue with this.
So the poor 40-60-year-olds rush in search of images suitable for their own worldview: from “young sexy beauties” to “nothing will help anyway.” published
© Irena Bar
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: theageofhappiness.com/posts/irena-bar-vozrast-40-60-okazalsya-nasegodnyashniy-den-dovolno-problemnym/5eeef7ad884
