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Fear of fat, perhaps a fear of femininity

The fear of the transition into the world of women. Fear of growing up. When you're a woman, a mother, you're no longer an object of care, but the source of the resource.

And what if all my life about you nobody care of?Even when you were a kid?How to fill your children if your vessel's heart is empty and he wants filling? What if I want to stop time and again to be a little girl, whose small body has to say to others "hold me in your arms", but it still Matures according to its own agenda without regard to the progress of mental aging.



The girl becomes a woman, entering the age of fertility, and for a hypothetical pregnancy fat, as an important part of the hormonal system, it is necessary to be deposited on the hips and stomach — the very places which are now heavily propose to deal not only with diets but surgery. Cut your fat and become less be a teenager in the eyes of others.

A whole industry, e.g., fitness bikini contests instructs the contestants decrease the fat percentage by any means up to life-threatening numbers, and even death can't stop thirsting to ascend to Olympus fitness.

And although we all know that fitness-bikini short have the form that you show on stage (the most competitive form), and often behind the scenes they are in full bloom eating disorders, still the society is actively present idea, so you can always look, you just need to try harder.They were women winning the fat is the dream and ideal.

Fat mere mortals and if you have, then just quietly — without the cellulite (which is generally not a problem, just an individual way of existence of subcutaneous fat), folds and other irregularities visible to the eye.

And if it still can be seen — hide it under clothes and never show anyone. Girl — the ideal of gloss, in reality-better with silicone breast, it is not quite the image of a child. And can even be moderately round Asses allowed. But not the belly or thighs is taboo. It's a shame. It's fear.

Feet only thin, and the stomach should be "cubes" — that is, visual confirmation of the nearly complete lack of fat — that has long been a mens standard, primarily associated with power.

There were times when it was not ashamed to be a grown woman and not have the body of a teenager.



Have a soft rounded belly and there is no clearance between the inner surface of the thighs. It was not only Rubens, but the days of Sophia Loren and Marilyn Monroe.

It is important to remember that times are changing, and one life and it is very sad to live it in feelings of guilt and shame for their perfectly normal female body. published

 

Author: Julia Lapina

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! © econet

Source: psychologytoday.ru/public/strakh-pered-zhirom/