You must have a lot of relationships and most important with yourself
The biggest burden for her husband — what is it? No, this is not a situation where he alone feeds a dozen hungry mouths. Not family quarrels, which happen to all.
It is most difficult for men who have somehow become the only source of happiness for their wives. It's too much. And it destroys relationships almost inevitable.
Warning signs:- you want all the time that he was there, and you are trying to do everything to not leave you alone for a minute. It to work — you feel good or right with it. He wants fishing, you take his "case" to on the train did not. You never know what tricks a woman can still come up, if only he stayed with her!
- you don't know what to do without him. You are simply bored. You continually call him when he's not offended if he doesn't want to talk right now.
- you have no other communication. Sometimes women themselves with their own hands break off all relations with the outside world, becoming isolated only on it. That's just the relationship is not good.
- you do not have other sources of happiness. Happiness is only him, only him. The rest is nonsense. Not the same.
Why is it dangerous?1. Men need 9 times less emotions and relationships. You can imagine, so you have to saturate you need to eat 9 bowls of cereal, and it is enough of one. If you are trying to get enough just from one relationship, he will get sick, nothing digest, will come out — Yes, and you will not want to chat more. Looking at you he's got a stomach ache (so you can mess fall out of love, although do not mess with it).
2. Man must leave the cave. To gather my thoughts, collect yourself into a pile. And still to have time for you to get bored again and want to meet you. Again choose you. Want it you more loved? Give him the opportunity to go into my cave.
3. The woman in day, say, I must say 22000 words for her to feel better. 22000! No man so much to listen to can not. If you certainly not pay him for it.
4. In every person's life there are different periods. Periods when the person feels good, he has a lot of power within, of love, of warmth. At this point, it is easy to share. But there comes another period, and a human crisis. It more can give happiness. He himself would be nourished somewhere. The man in this case, losing his masculine essence, feels the frustration, and loses the love of his wife, while she loses respect for him. And this is no coincidence, everything is connected.
5. All we are very attached, is destroyed. It is the law of the material world. Alas. Excessive attachment will result in full loss.
Relationships in your life should be a lot. Different. Children, parents, relatives, friends, neighbors. This is your broth in which you cook with all day. There you are saturated with emotions, 22000 pronounce their words, receive happiness, and love.
And the husband is the dessert. Always welcome and always so delicious. A small but very important. For which it is necessary to leave the place, but which you can't do the main course and then the teeth will deteriorate, and the stomach fail, and tired. Just tired of it.
You must have a lot of relationships and most important with myself. When you look forward to the time spend alone with yourself, your personal half an hour.
And relationship with God as a boundless source of happiness, which is so important to everyone. Creativity — how the relationship with yourself and God at the same time, when you are a conduit of this energy, materializing it in some things, and events.
And all these relationships that you have — it's your emotional immune system, your protection from the difficulties and burnout. And not only yours, but also your family. This is probably one of the main recipes a long relationship. published
Author: Olga Valyaeva
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! © econet
Source: valyaeva.ru/kak-zhenshhina-razrushaet-otnosheniya/