Psychosomatics of hemorrhoids

The article on the psychosomatics of hemorrhoids I will immediately begin with one curious case.

Mother-in-law is visiting her daughter-in-law. The relationship between them is not perfect, but neither is it a nightmare. The same evening, when the mother-in-law arrives, the daughter-in-law's child becomes ill, and he and his mother are taken by ambulance to the hospital. The baby is fine, but something is wrong with the mother-in-law.





Now, attention. At the moment when a daughter-in-law with a child leaves the house with doctors, the mother-in-law begins a terrible attack of hemorrhoids. At the same moment, she feels great pain. An attack of hemorrhoids lasts several days.

What happened to my mother-in-law? The fact is that she can not determine for herself a place in the house of her son. The daughter-in-law clearly feels like a mistress, and does not make her feel like a mistress of her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law suffers from this, she wants to find another place for herself, but it does not work.

Suddenly there is a case when the mother-in-law is in the role of a full mistress of the situation - after all, the daughter-in-law has left the house. And immediately (and why should the body linger?) comes the recovery phase - an attack of hemorrhoids.

So, Hemorrhoids are the recovery phase after a territorial conflict with a tinge of identity search. (Who am I in these circumstances?)

I have seen cases of hemorrhoid attacks, when adult children “arranged a showdown” with their parents, finally getting out of parental total control, or throwing off parental definitions of losers or nothingness.

Hemorrhoids after childbirth are a common thing. But in most women, it's not very noticeable. However, for some it becomes a big problem and This is probably due not only to postpartum physiology, but also to a new definition of self. Now I'm the Mother.

And if before giving birth, a woman had some problem with a set of “self-images”, for example, she did not yet feel like a real wife, or a real daughter, or a professional in something – with childbirth, she automatically forms an image of herself as a mother. And in this case, it would be a real resolution of the identity conflict. And therefore - hemorrhoids, as a recovery phase.

If a man chronicAsk yourself, How often do you say no to your surroundings? ? If a person can not resist any suggestions, and he has a feeling that he sat down on him, and they are encouraged, then it is quite possible that this is the cause of hemorrhoids.

In the example above, we again face a territorial conflict. And if a person realizes himself as someone who can not ride, then after a sharp acute attack (the recovery phase should occur), hemorrhoids cease to be chronic.

So, The main topics of psychosomatics of hemorrhoids:

• Who am I (in any context)
• “Why can’t I find a normal place?”

These two themes are intertwined in different variations, and if there is suffering associated with themes, there will be disease. In this case, hemorrhoids. published



Author: Elena Guskova



P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!

Source: elenaguskova.ru/psihosomatika-gemorroya/