What I learned from German women: 5 simple rules to live by.

Despite the difference in upbringing, worldview and life values, every woman or otherwise seeks to realize itself and be truly happy.

The editors of "Site" have collected some useful lessons from the German Frau, who will teach to take care of yourself and your personal space.





Women's wisdom

1. Do not look at man as a way of solving problems
   And it's not in the emancipation or the desire of superiority. Because people — they are not forever. Your companion and loyal support could lose his job, to leave you, or just to escape from life. Of course, it is important to know that there is someone to rely on in difficult times. But if you don't learn how to solve befallen you problems, then it will be even harder. Passion is gradually replaced by life, and it often entails a lot of negative situations and emotions. You're two adults and you need to make life easier for each other, because for that you go through life shoulder to shoulder.
   
   
2. Be yourself, and not just someone's maid, mother or wife
   The Germans are not violent careers and not reduce the value of motherhood or marriage, as it may seem at first glance. They just don't make it my life's mission. They are realistc. They are ready for anything. Infertility of one of the partners, no person could tie a serious relationship, is the reality of the modern world. Here is a woman who has the same personality as the man. And if a man of age and without a family is considered "old wolf", it is "the old lion", not "empty shell" and the miserable creature. And if you were lucky, and in the house heard the patter of tiny feet, the wise German will not hide their old Hobbies and interests.
   
   Yes, she's a mother and wife, but she also loves diving and tattooing, for example. She has many personal interests and Affairs. It's so important to feel the person and to be happy under any circumstances.
   
   
   
   
   
3. Personal life of other people — their own business
   Germany will never hear in the address of questions like, "Why are you not married / no boyfriend / have the baby yet?". Even the age they ask very rarely and quite carefully. It will surprise many, but don't the Germans love to talk about someone else's personal life, and that's it. It may seem that this is evidence of some kind of callousness or lack of cordiality. But after a while you begin to realize that this is the right approach. To talk about their inner feelings or problems, sister or mother, for example, but only if you really want to. It's frustrating when you pull the most untouchable of the strings without asking. Personal life and personal so that you get to look for the causes and remedies.
   
   
   
   
   
4. Need to be easier
   Frau rarely about anything silent or scheming. If she doesn't like something, she will say so. If she's too lazy to go to meet my girlfriend, she's not looking for stupid excuses and just not go, because she doesn't want today. With all the same happens. If she has a breakdown or depression, it is not force yourself with work or chores, and just goes to the doctor and taking sick leave to sort himself out and just relax. If she's not comfortable in heels, she never wears shoes, and switches to sneakers.
   
   
5. Natural beauty
   By the way, about appearance. Many of us believe that the Germans go too far with his disregard for appearance. We're used to that every day, every trip to work or shop — holiday. But the German women view relationships to their appearance quite adequate: if this is not a social reception or wedding, so comfortable pants, flat shoes and natural make-up is the choice of the day. And even such a simple, seemingly, and not very feminine to be attractive. The pants can be simple, convenient, but at the same time elegant. Instead of flashy makeup — fancy jewelry. A healthy, neat and well-groomed hair — the feminine element of the image.
   
   
   
   
   

Take note of these helpful tips for women and be happy!

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