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Today, the main trend of life after 50 is defined by a phrase "create yourself anew". The fact is that most people have to 50-year life of the program (education, marriage, career, children) has already been done and there is still at least 20 years of active life.

When there is a material base of life experience and, in addition, have more free time, a person begins the process of rethinking your life as a whole and its individual parties.





Many people after 50, a second career, sometimes in a completely new area. There are times when a second profession becomes a hobby. The money ceases to be the leading factor, and in the foreground of interest, the possibility of self-realization, a feeling of being wanted, the benefit to society as a whole (for example, in the US, many retirees are working for free as volunteers in hospitals, schools and charitable organizations). A second career took place, many people go to learn.

People after 50 happy to learn. It can be both short courses and complete higher education. Often people use the possibilities, which for various reasons he had to abandon in his youth. Many say that learning in adulthood is even easier: first, study after 50 it is a conscious choice, and in addition, helps experience and the ability to self-organize, and distractions are less and the pleasure more.

During this period, often there is a reassessment not only his professional life but also personal. When the children grew up and "flew the nest", a seemingly wealthy couple suddenly falling apart. Divorce after 50 become so commonplace that American therapists there was even a special term — "gray divorce" (divorce grey).

Causes of call a variety.

• If both spouses retired and began spending a lot of time at home between them can worsen the contradictions which had smoldered for years, but the showdown had neither the time nor the energy.

 

• It also happens that the above-described reinvention of life has occurred with one of the spouses, and the other won't (or can't) accept it, and he is not going to change.

 

But there is, as they say, good news: after 50 is more happy marriages or partnerships. As in the case study, it is a conscious choice. In addition, there is no need to build a traditional family, to have children, you can just spend time together happily.

However, many, still lead an active social life hanging out with older children and grandchildren, friends, Hobbies, work, travel consciously choose loneliness. For some reason, especially often about what a pleasure, finally, to live alone, women say.





Often parishes of age, people suddenly find in yourself a new sexuality. Many posadres finally accept your own body the way it is, and say goodbye to complexes. While women often admit that after menopause, when there is no fear of getting pregnant, they feel much more relaxed.

Maturity is a great time for all that did not exist before time, including for realization of creative abilities: dancing, music, painting, literature, blogging, fashion and clothing. In addition, many begin to travel altogether or change their place of residence.

When in your life, new interests, I want to stay longer in shape. More free time after 50 means that you have more opportunities to do them (there is sport, walking, and Wellness practices, and a review of the diet). A first start to play sports into adulthood — we wrote a lot about people, and about the benefits of physical activity not only for body but also for the brain.





Also interesting: how different life is after 50 from all previous life

Age and the body: when you are 50+

 

In General, if you suddenly realize that the usual whirlwind ("got up, went to bed, happy New year!") suddenly slowed down, think, maybe for you it is time to "invent themselves anew."

And better yet, come to our festival "the Age of Happiness. Well over fifty"! This is a great way to reinvent him or herself.published

 

Author: Ksenia Chermenteeva

 



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