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Psychosomatics: Oh, there's a missing warehouse of life talking.
From what save the extra folds on the stomach?
Proceeding from the fact that “if there is, then someone needs it”, you have grown a pusico for a reason. the body always solves the problems of the personality – “Do you need something?”
So, what tasks does the excess fat mass solve around the circle?
First and foremost is protection from unnecessary sexual contact. Both aesthetically and technically.
No sexual contact, no pregnancy. Unconsciously, a woman can protect herself not from sex as such, but from pregnancy. A couple of generations ago, in Russian villages, it was believed that “a woman is a yak chicken, as much as she is laid in, so much she should give birth.”
And women gave birth every year. The big belly is also an imitation of pregnancy - "I'm already in tears, don't touch me."
Sexual attraction in the eyes of other men. The belly performs the role of the “belt of chastity”, being the pledge of fidelity to the wife. And for a woman, the guarantor of her own safety, or “whatever happens.”
A big body is also a big status. Status is the mother of the family, which is not up to all sorts of figlia-miggles there; the status of a serious leader, no longer a "middle-of-the-middle-the-middle-of-the-mill girl" or some "verty-tail", but an empress, Catherine II.
Weight adds age, and with it the illusion of “sophistication” and “experience.” If you need to lead people much older, from the position of a pigalica on thin legs, it is difficult to do. Bodily conformity to one’s status looks different in different organizations.
Somewhere in order to be taken seriously, you need to be quick, active and fit, and somewhere solid, weighty, with a heavy hand and a loud voice. And the body helps the person to integrate and solve their problems in this environment.
From activity, mobility, quick action. If you want to slow down, settle down, give yourself the right not to run anywhere, do not do what you do not want to do, then how to help yourself better than to get sick or become heavier and clumsier? Again, a woman with a large belly is subconsciously perceived as expecting a child, and a pregnant woman is not up to any running.
Although my article is based on women’s stories, a large weight, as compensation or confirmation of “weight in society”, is unconsciously used by men. “Big, serious, status man, merchant, boyar, family man!” Not a boy, but a husband!
Women love winners Walking through the circle of unlearned life lessons
The stomach as a limiter of sexual contacts, and the claims of women on their person also works well in men. In addition, a large belly adds age, and with it respect for his person, once again no one will ask you to do anything.
Like any symptom, excess weight, and with it more than it would seem necessary, the abdomen has its own task, which it helps to solve.
My client called her belly her "lifeline." And he really does. It saves us from what we now perceive as dangerous, unnecessary. She's safe. You may not be ready to remove this charm yet.
Maybe it's time.
Author: Irina Dybova
Source: dybova.ru/news/moj-zhivot-moj-spasatelnyj-krug/
Proceeding from the fact that “if there is, then someone needs it”, you have grown a pusico for a reason. the body always solves the problems of the personality – “Do you need something?”
So, what tasks does the excess fat mass solve around the circle?
First and foremost is protection from unnecessary sexual contact. Both aesthetically and technically.
No sexual contact, no pregnancy. Unconsciously, a woman can protect herself not from sex as such, but from pregnancy. A couple of generations ago, in Russian villages, it was believed that “a woman is a yak chicken, as much as she is laid in, so much she should give birth.”
And women gave birth every year. The big belly is also an imitation of pregnancy - "I'm already in tears, don't touch me."
Sexual attraction in the eyes of other men. The belly performs the role of the “belt of chastity”, being the pledge of fidelity to the wife. And for a woman, the guarantor of her own safety, or “whatever happens.”
A big body is also a big status. Status is the mother of the family, which is not up to all sorts of figlia-miggles there; the status of a serious leader, no longer a "middle-of-the-middle-the-middle-of-the-mill girl" or some "verty-tail", but an empress, Catherine II.
Weight adds age, and with it the illusion of “sophistication” and “experience.” If you need to lead people much older, from the position of a pigalica on thin legs, it is difficult to do. Bodily conformity to one’s status looks different in different organizations.
Somewhere in order to be taken seriously, you need to be quick, active and fit, and somewhere solid, weighty, with a heavy hand and a loud voice. And the body helps the person to integrate and solve their problems in this environment.
From activity, mobility, quick action. If you want to slow down, settle down, give yourself the right not to run anywhere, do not do what you do not want to do, then how to help yourself better than to get sick or become heavier and clumsier? Again, a woman with a large belly is subconsciously perceived as expecting a child, and a pregnant woman is not up to any running.
Although my article is based on women’s stories, a large weight, as compensation or confirmation of “weight in society”, is unconsciously used by men. “Big, serious, status man, merchant, boyar, family man!” Not a boy, but a husband!
Women love winners Walking through the circle of unlearned life lessons
The stomach as a limiter of sexual contacts, and the claims of women on their person also works well in men. In addition, a large belly adds age, and with it respect for his person, once again no one will ask you to do anything.
Like any symptom, excess weight, and with it more than it would seem necessary, the abdomen has its own task, which it helps to solve.
My client called her belly her "lifeline." And he really does. It saves us from what we now perceive as dangerous, unnecessary. She's safe. You may not be ready to remove this charm yet.
Maybe it's time.
Author: Irina Dybova
Source: dybova.ru/news/moj-zhivot-moj-spasatelnyj-krug/
