10 myths about introverts that need to stop believing

Not to say that introverts don't like people. They are just very selective. For this type of people, the words "Inner beauty is more important than the outside" – not a meaningless set of words. But most of the charges which fall upon the fragile souls of introverts, very exaggerated:

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Myth 1 – introverts taciturn.
 

This is not so. They just do not say if they have nothing to say. They don't like empty talk. If you talk to them about something that interests them, they will not be able to stop.

Myth 2 – introverts shy.
 

Shyness has nothing to do with introversion. Introverts are not afraid of people, but to contact them need a reason. They do not communicate just for the sake of communication. If you want to talk to an introvert, just talk to him. Don't be afraid to be rude.

Myth 3 –introverts are rude.
 

Introverts often see no reason for ceremonies and exchange pleasantries. They want everyone to be natural and honest. Unfortunately, this is in most cases unacceptable, so introverts is sometimes a lot of effort to adapt, and it is for them exhausting.

Myth 4 – introverts don't like people.
 

On the contrary, introverts appreciate those few friends they have. They can count close friends on the fingers of one hand. If you are lucky enough to be the friend of the introvert, you have a loyal ally for life. Once you earned his respect as a meaningful person, he is with you.

Myth 5 – introverts don't like to go out.
 

Nonsense. Introverts don't like to go out for too long. They very quickly assimilate information and, therefore, they do not need to spend much time in society to be "in the know". They will go home to recharge and digest the impressions received. The cooldown of tranquility for introverts vital.

Myth 6 –introverts always want to be alone.
 

Introverts are quite comfortable alone with my thoughts. They have a lot of thinking. They are dreaming of. They like it when there are problems over which they can work, the tasks they can solve. But they can also feel lonely if they don't have someone with whom they can share their discoveries. They require sincere honest relationship with only ONE PERSON at a time.

Myth 7 – introverts are weird.
 

Most introverts are individualists. They don't follow the crowd. They prefer to be valued for their unusual way of life. They think with their head and therefore often defy what is considered normal. They don't make decisions based only on what is popular and fashionable.

Myth 8 –introverts – enclosed crank.
 

Introverts are people who primarily focused on internal, and pay great attention to your thoughts and emotions. Not that they are unable to pay attention to what is happening around, just their inner world is much more interesting and useful for them.

Myth 9 –introverts can't have fun and relax.
 

Introverts typically relax at home or outdoors and not in a noisy public places. They are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies do not. If there is too much talk and noise, they are closed.

Myth 10 – introverts can "fix" and become extroverts.
 

A world without introverts would be a world with a small number of scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers and philosophers. Introverts can't "correct" and deserve respect for their innate temperament and the benefits they brought to mankind. By the way, the study of Silverman (1986) showed that the proportion of introverts among people with a high IQ is much higher.  published 

 

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