Access to the body is secret to the whole world.The other day, when I was returning from filming my trailer, I started talking to a model. A beautiful girl with huge eyes, expressive lips and a clear look, asked me what was the secret to building a relationship with a successful man. He said, I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. We meet, meet, and after a while disappear. Sometimes, even with insults.” I was interested. Of course, a woman’s fantasy of fiction is rich, and the number of mistakes that a young girl can make when communicating with a man is large. However, I decided to understand what the deflo is, because the girl was an exceptional beauty and not at all stupid. I begin to ask – everything is fine, and suddenly she pronounces the phrase: “And one even said why I need a girl who can find all the charms in the open access.” But I'm a model! That's my job! Yes, if you search, you can find a photo where I am without panties, but now I can not count on normal relations?
I opened my mouth and forgot to close it. Yes, in this age of social media, a certain amount of openness is almost a sign of good manners. However, turning your life apart for the sake of extra likes - you still need to be smart. I understand when in a funny and half-drunken state you want to post a funny picture of you sitting on the stairs in an embrace with wine and a good friend. And your friends, of course, will appreciate your humor and your mood and your new friend. All of them will politely comment and tell you that you are a beautiful and funny fictionalist. I also understand when, in awe of yourself, you post a photo in a new swimsuit against the backdrop of the sea, sunset, make an appealing passionate look and collect likes again. A young woman with beautiful shapes, why not?
But when your profile is filled with photos, where you are drunk, then naked, then in an embrace with a monument, rubbing it with causal places, you form a very definite impression about yourself. Whether you like it or not, your postings gradually shape your image. You think you're just fooling around and no one will judge you, but there are some meetings that dramatically change your life. Or they can change it, but only if your story is clear. And in these moments, careless funny photos or posts can ruin a lot. I'm going to tell you some sad stories about why it became bad for young beauties and smart girls like you.
A beautiful girl, let’s call her Katya, from a simple family, with a good education and a routine job. More than anything in the world, I dreamed of marrying a man, wealthy, who would break into her life, take with him to a new, beautiful future. She imagined that she would live in a beautiful house, lead housekeepers, drive expensive cars and join the circle of high society, where her future children would grow up. Katya was a very smart girl and spent a lot of time and patience understanding the nature of successful men. Understand how they think, what matters, what they value. And the day came when all her efforts paid off - she met a wonderful young man, was able to captivate him, and they began a beautiful, stormy and promising affair.
He was engaged in politics, so he had no accounts in social networks, and information about his life was dosed and only the one that went through the PR service. After a while, he introduced her to her parents, and after a while, he suggested she move in with him. Her whole life has already changed beyond recognition – a beloved man, strong, confident and powerful, a way of life – exquisite and luxurious. She is already part of the world she has dreamed of for so long.
But everything changed in a second. Her hero first disappeared without explanation, and then, appearing, said that he was not ready to build his life with a girl of easy behavior. Hours of sobbing in the pillow, requests to explain, assurances that this is all some huge mistake, assurances of his own “innocence” and only then an explanation from him. It turned out that he went to her page on one of the social networks and saw her ad eight months ago:
“Looking for a fellow traveler to Cyprus. Dates are September 11-19. Hotel 4 stars, cost about 36 000 for two. A few days later, a photo from this trip. The companion was a young man. Among their joyous sunsets, joint selfies and seas of smiles with a bottle of wine and was her crime.
Can this be interpreted as something criminal? Not one hundred percent. Maybe it was just a good friend, maybe they never slept together, and maybe he was of a different orientation at all. But the man saw something completely different in these pictures. To say goodbye, he told her that he was not ready to build a relationship with a girl, the whole unclean biography of which lies on the surface and is available to anyone. “My circle does not accept this,” he said. So, Katya returned to her positions, again stayed in her rented apartment, works for a salary, although she was one step away from her dream.
Remember, darling! If you hope to get a man more serious than a bartender in a restaurant, you should not have any compromising stains on your reputation. And yes, reputation includes your photos, your posts and your comments on social media.
Sad story number 2. The girl, let’s call her Elena, studied as a TV presenter and dreamed of working on the federal channel. And after many months of persistent and persistent attempts, she was invited for an interview on the main channel of the country. The interview was brilliant, she charmed everyone, the portfolio was impeccable and immediately after the interview, the friend whispered to her that everyone was happy, and she was taken. However, a day later, she was refused. The official reason for the refusal is the presence of compromising photos in the open access.
Old as the world, the proverb “keep honor young”. Never forget that life can turn out to give you a great opportunity – in the person of a man, in the person of a career, or any new opportunities. Try not to stop these opportunities at the root, mindlessly posting information that defames you. Remember that each of your “hello to the world” gives information about you and adds up your image. Make sure he is worthy.
I wish you happiness and great success! published
Author: Olga Kraynova
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
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Source: good-wife.ru/