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The main problem of married people
An unmarried woman often predict the worst: lonely old age surrounded by cats. But actually it turns out that there are things worse than loneliness! And they just happen to married people. About this issue, not to say aloud. But faced with her 90% of married couples with children...
I'm talking about the inability to be alone. Most likely, if You are married, You know the feeling.
Neither our apartment nor our vehicles or our offices or our families – this is not designed for the desire to be alone. I think that in Soviet society with its collectivism, in principle, was lost culture of loneliness. Nothing has changed. People who do not have the culture of loneliness, moreover, they are afraid to leave You alone!
As soon as You open your eyes, hearing the sound of the alarm, You immediately begin to pull thousands of small invisible threads. It turns out that there are dozens of people that need Your attention well right now. You pull from the top, bottom and sides. And a little more generally strangers!
People shouting, talking, cursing, smell. If You are traveling on public transport, the music is persistently climbs from all angles, forming a furious cacophony of sounds. You kick their little feet, you hurt the jackets, put on You bags.
Well, finally, arrived. No wind today, snow soft and wet. You want to take it in hand, to look at him to slow down a step. You want to walk through the woods, reading a book, wrapped in a blanket, or watch TV shows.
But you can't be late. You are turning into a run, along a narrow path to the institution. And someone arrecifal You, someone says Hello, someone starts shipping his personal life. Have you ever noticed how many times a day, different people tugging at You? A hundred times, no less.
Every man sometimes you want a soft warm cocoon, where he is alone, and where there are no problems. But how many of us in the real world can afford it?
Do you communicate with neighbours, with superiors, then with clients. Oh, You work at home? Then from 8 am begins to violently scrape your Skype. Make no mistake, if You're working at home, You do not communicate less, and more rest.
Once home, You want to hide in the bathroom, but not yet composed the story in English, not cooked dinner for tomorrow, not washed white tights, not satisfied with husband...
Redoing all of the business, You still go to the bathroom. You lie down, his legs stretched out blissfully, closing the door. You drink alone as an expensive wine, SIP. Are you happy...I think that the truly happy can be no person with whom to share the joy, no people who cannot be alone. Isn't that right?
Loneliness is not pugalka for lonely aunts. It is so natural and necessary for each condition that to ignore it is foolish and dangerous! Even the best man is not designed for something that would be on 24/7 people. That feels the wife needs to appreciate and respect every husband and every wife! Otherwise, it's jail, not exist. Solitude is necessary for all of us dosed as strong medicine. But without it does not! A warm bath, fishing, walk – it's the luxury of loneliness that we sometimes need to afford, otherwise everything will collapse!
By the way, what you do when you want to be alone? Where are you hiding? published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
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I'm talking about the inability to be alone. Most likely, if You are married, You know the feeling.
Neither our apartment nor our vehicles or our offices or our families – this is not designed for the desire to be alone. I think that in Soviet society with its collectivism, in principle, was lost culture of loneliness. Nothing has changed. People who do not have the culture of loneliness, moreover, they are afraid to leave You alone!
As soon as You open your eyes, hearing the sound of the alarm, You immediately begin to pull thousands of small invisible threads. It turns out that there are dozens of people that need Your attention well right now. You pull from the top, bottom and sides. And a little more generally strangers!
People shouting, talking, cursing, smell. If You are traveling on public transport, the music is persistently climbs from all angles, forming a furious cacophony of sounds. You kick their little feet, you hurt the jackets, put on You bags.
Well, finally, arrived. No wind today, snow soft and wet. You want to take it in hand, to look at him to slow down a step. You want to walk through the woods, reading a book, wrapped in a blanket, or watch TV shows.
But you can't be late. You are turning into a run, along a narrow path to the institution. And someone arrecifal You, someone says Hello, someone starts shipping his personal life. Have you ever noticed how many times a day, different people tugging at You? A hundred times, no less.
Every man sometimes you want a soft warm cocoon, where he is alone, and where there are no problems. But how many of us in the real world can afford it?
Do you communicate with neighbours, with superiors, then with clients. Oh, You work at home? Then from 8 am begins to violently scrape your Skype. Make no mistake, if You're working at home, You do not communicate less, and more rest.
Once home, You want to hide in the bathroom, but not yet composed the story in English, not cooked dinner for tomorrow, not washed white tights, not satisfied with husband...
Redoing all of the business, You still go to the bathroom. You lie down, his legs stretched out blissfully, closing the door. You drink alone as an expensive wine, SIP. Are you happy...I think that the truly happy can be no person with whom to share the joy, no people who cannot be alone. Isn't that right?
Loneliness is not pugalka for lonely aunts. It is so natural and necessary for each condition that to ignore it is foolish and dangerous! Even the best man is not designed for something that would be on 24/7 people. That feels the wife needs to appreciate and respect every husband and every wife! Otherwise, it's jail, not exist. Solitude is necessary for all of us dosed as strong medicine. But without it does not! A warm bath, fishing, walk – it's the luxury of loneliness that we sometimes need to afford, otherwise everything will collapse!
By the way, what you do when you want to be alone? Where are you hiding? published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: morena-morana.livejournal.com/522174.html
