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5 surest signs of low self-esteem
The very word "self" is a small catch. After all, judging by the name of self-esteem - this is how we evaluate ourselves. But in fact the sum of the relationships to us others. As a child realizes he's good or not? By reacting it parents. That's self-esteem is formed and we absorb the attitude surrounding us, from which we conclude that what we
. It happens that in different areas we feel is not the same. For example, a woman can easily be confident in yourself as a specialist, and then the professional part of her self-esteem is high. But this does not mean that it will be self-confident as a woman.
Women's self-esteem - it is an internal sense of their value and attractiveness to the opposite sex. Woman with adequate self-esteem is not afraid of male attention, she feels worthy of love and respect. More on the relation to himself as a woman to strongly influence attitudes about love, relationships, male and female. For example, many people have the belief that "love - to suffer and sacrifice." Is it possible at this setting, treat yourself with respect?
If we do not believe that the worthy man's attention that the female of us "not very", then we will act accordingly. Nizhu are five signs of a woman with low self-esteem:
1. A woman with low self-esteem can not and can not take care, gifts and a man's attention. Somewhere inside she does not believe that is worthy to be loved just like that. Therefore, it is lost or looking for a trick when she compliments say or trying to meet.
2. Low self-esteem all the time whispering to the woman that she was "not very", you need to agree to a relationship that she is offered. Who knows, maybe more than one, it will not be able to draw? And yet she thinks that is what will get: few people are attracted to insecure woman. As a result, it does not consider itself the right to choose a man and is often in relation to those from whom better to stay away.
3. Another indicator of low self-esteem - the inability to directly and talk aloud about their desires. And this applies not only to aid or gifts. Even if a man honestly tries to make her well, asks what she wants, then a woman says riddles or leaving the question. Partner each time has pincers to pull out of it her own desires, and sooner or later these games will tire of any adequate man. But this situation is completely satisfied with the one who desires it is not interested.
A woman with low self-esteem is afraid to "flush out" the man, it seems that she will love only if it will adjust to other people's wishes, if it is comfortable and will not want something for themselves. Unconsciously, she believes that love must be earned, and if it is, then abandon it.
In these respects the installation force women to make any concessions, as long as man has been around, as long as we have not given up. And this is the best way to get where we do not appreciate and respect.
4. It follows from this and another sign of low self-esteem female: it is not respected by those who are close by. Ambient reflect the level of our self-esteem. As you yourself value - and will respond to you other
. Think of your feelings from different people: there are those who get nasty - well, do not dare. And there are those who kick and pulls. What does it depend? From self-esteem. If a person feels inner dignity, if he loves and respects himself, he did not allow himself to be rude. He will not maintain contact with those who treat disrespectfully, not tolerate this.
5. Our self-esteem is reflected in how we relate to other women. A woman with low self-esteem all the time comparing yourself to others and often sees around solid competitors. If you know deep down that such a set of qualities, as you have, no one else has, you will not compete.
You have their advantages, the other ladies - his own. And each will appeal to those who appreciate it its features. If you, for example, is high, you will be attracted to those men who like high. That's all.
But if a woman sees in every other opponent lady, it says that in her heart she feels unique and valuable. She keeps comparing himself with others. It does not matter, it loses or wins in the comparison. Indeed, in this case, its relation to itself constantly depends on those who are close.
What prevents self-esteem? Fear of being poor, fear of being selfish, fear of being abandoned. We feel that if we are to love and respect yourself, then someone may not like it that we stop loving. I will not lie and say that everything will be alright.
Yes, indeed, there are people who are not satisfied with it. After all, what it means to "selfish"? This is someone who is uncomfortable around him. Anyone who thinks with his head, the one who can not be controlled. And some people this situation seems very unattractive. You need to have such people around you?
Many of us have a fear that if we begin to demand respect for ourselves, if we start to love ourselves and protect, we become bad. In the words of another great therapist: "Defending our borders, you do not become a bad person. You become an adult. "
. It happens that in different areas we feel is not the same. For example, a woman can easily be confident in yourself as a specialist, and then the professional part of her self-esteem is high. But this does not mean that it will be self-confident as a woman.
Women's self-esteem - it is an internal sense of their value and attractiveness to the opposite sex. Woman with adequate self-esteem is not afraid of male attention, she feels worthy of love and respect. More on the relation to himself as a woman to strongly influence attitudes about love, relationships, male and female. For example, many people have the belief that "love - to suffer and sacrifice." Is it possible at this setting, treat yourself with respect?
If we do not believe that the worthy man's attention that the female of us "not very", then we will act accordingly. Nizhu are five signs of a woman with low self-esteem:
1. A woman with low self-esteem can not and can not take care, gifts and a man's attention. Somewhere inside she does not believe that is worthy to be loved just like that. Therefore, it is lost or looking for a trick when she compliments say or trying to meet.
2. Low self-esteem all the time whispering to the woman that she was "not very", you need to agree to a relationship that she is offered. Who knows, maybe more than one, it will not be able to draw? And yet she thinks that is what will get: few people are attracted to insecure woman. As a result, it does not consider itself the right to choose a man and is often in relation to those from whom better to stay away.
3. Another indicator of low self-esteem - the inability to directly and talk aloud about their desires. And this applies not only to aid or gifts. Even if a man honestly tries to make her well, asks what she wants, then a woman says riddles or leaving the question. Partner each time has pincers to pull out of it her own desires, and sooner or later these games will tire of any adequate man. But this situation is completely satisfied with the one who desires it is not interested.
A woman with low self-esteem is afraid to "flush out" the man, it seems that she will love only if it will adjust to other people's wishes, if it is comfortable and will not want something for themselves. Unconsciously, she believes that love must be earned, and if it is, then abandon it.
In these respects the installation force women to make any concessions, as long as man has been around, as long as we have not given up. And this is the best way to get where we do not appreciate and respect.
4. It follows from this and another sign of low self-esteem female: it is not respected by those who are close by. Ambient reflect the level of our self-esteem. As you yourself value - and will respond to you other
. Think of your feelings from different people: there are those who get nasty - well, do not dare. And there are those who kick and pulls. What does it depend? From self-esteem. If a person feels inner dignity, if he loves and respects himself, he did not allow himself to be rude. He will not maintain contact with those who treat disrespectfully, not tolerate this.
5. Our self-esteem is reflected in how we relate to other women. A woman with low self-esteem all the time comparing yourself to others and often sees around solid competitors. If you know deep down that such a set of qualities, as you have, no one else has, you will not compete.
You have their advantages, the other ladies - his own. And each will appeal to those who appreciate it its features. If you, for example, is high, you will be attracted to those men who like high. That's all.
But if a woman sees in every other opponent lady, it says that in her heart she feels unique and valuable. She keeps comparing himself with others. It does not matter, it loses or wins in the comparison. Indeed, in this case, its relation to itself constantly depends on those who are close.
What prevents self-esteem? Fear of being poor, fear of being selfish, fear of being abandoned. We feel that if we are to love and respect yourself, then someone may not like it that we stop loving. I will not lie and say that everything will be alright.
Yes, indeed, there are people who are not satisfied with it. After all, what it means to "selfish"? This is someone who is uncomfortable around him. Anyone who thinks with his head, the one who can not be controlled. And some people this situation seems very unattractive. You need to have such people around you?
Many of us have a fear that if we begin to demand respect for ourselves, if we start to love ourselves and protect, we become bad. In the words of another great therapist: "Defending our borders, you do not become a bad person. You become an adult. "
