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Scientists have discovered the essence of the offense in adults
Resentment - is ignorance.
We take offense because of his desire to take advantage, exploit the people around us. Therefore, we are offended.
If we are offended by their loved ones, then we have the existence of a negative consumer. And if we do not take offense, and they are doing something and we calmly to this attitude, then we have a positive existence.
Because we do want to do something good. If a person does not do any good, because we think it's not stopping me from doing it is something good for us.
If something prevents us from doing other good we may think - 'what is stopping you? "- But we will not be upset. But if we get offended that we nedodali something, then 100% - we will be upset.
We have to change their orientation. We have to do something good to others and this is to find happiness.
It is very difficult, as the false ego will be strongly resisted.
But when a man is very brave, inside himself, he begins to repeat constantly: "I wish everyone happiness", he defeats a bad idea in my head. Our feelings, habits, problems may prevent us wish everyone happiness.
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