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4 genetic causes of poverty
History, which will change your idea of poverty.
Where are the roots of poverty? What is the probability that it lies within ourselves? Business coach and popular lecturer Natalia Grace in one of his books try to answer these questions. She is convinced that there is a Law of Genetic Poverty - the reason why the people themselves are programmed themselves to poverty. It turns out that it affects all four factors.
Website carefully read all four, and advises everyone to do it. These reasons are easily recognized by our Russian and post-Soviet realities.
1. MentalitetV childhood classmate at home we often jump on the couch, not yet seen by adults. We are very pleased the spring, sometimes very close approach to the surface; She enthralled the dust that was flying clubs of a sofa from our jumps. When twenty years later, I went to his childhood friend, the horror I saw in the corner is the same sofa on which we once jumped.
He has not changed much, as far as I could remember, but now I was shocked by poverty and wretchedness of the situation. I mentally calculate how much could be worth buying a new sofa, replacing greasy stools, mirrors, broken and gummed chocolate wrapper. As we talked, I imagined white ceiling and change wallpaper. I wanted to wash the windows, obsizhennye flies, throw out sticks and cardboard, sticking out from under the couch, broken flower pot, tied with a stocking. "And what if the bad with money?" - I thought ... But the brain resisted and offered me to buy at least an inexpensive adhesive film in the color of wood and covered with her desk. Wherever I looked, my eyes ran across some damage, dirt, stains and debris.
The brain suddenly said to me: "Do you think why near poverty has always dirty?" Now I'll ask the same question.
Even if you replace the word "always" to "almost always" or "often", the easier this is not done. Mud - a manifestation of a lack of money is not, and mentality. Think about it: the dirt - it is a manifestation of the corresponding mentality. And as the dirt and poverty - neighbors, and poverty - a kind of mentality.
Poverty is in a dirty mind.
2. philistinism school I had a terrific teacher of literature - Tamara G., extraordinary mind, a very shrewd woman. She once dropped a phrase that I remember for a lifetime. Someone asked her what it means to the petty bourgeoisie, and she replied: "Narrow-mindedness is to drink from an old shabby clubs when the new is in the sideboard." So it is accepted in many Russian houses: a rainy day money set aside for a new cup of white day in the sideboard is only white day occurs rarely, and black filled the whole of life. Who lives waiting for the future, for it never comes. And then I realized it: shame to be poor; ashamed to be dirty. It's a shame to have in mind the devastation that inevitably reflected in the housing, and to the mentality of children.
The life expectation of the future leads to ruin.
3. Complex ZolushkiZnayu one woman who for more than twenty years had been saving money to buy a country house. She alone has two daughters. The girls lived from hand to mouth, on some cereals, and the eldest of them told me how she was ashamed to go out in the yard in old corduroy trousers with patched knees. The girl grew up, and every year it grew magically pants. Centimeter by centimeter unfolded podvёrnutaya bottom fabric. It was not as faded as the rest of the leg, and it has issued a miserable tricks. Apparently, hence the expression went, "Necessity is the mother of invention».
It is not necessary to tell that the system does not allow the state to earn enough. I do not scold system and rot the brain. For the same money you can look decent, or beggars. When his mother finally bought the cottage, two grown daughters did not have to testify this is not the slightest interest, but endlessly reproached mother that she did not teach them what it means to be a woman. In the girls formed a Cinderella complex. They are accustomed to see mashed chairs and old utensils, towels and mangy coat seven years ago, later, as adults, afraid to spend the money.
Whenever they buy something, they have a bad mood they like to feel unworthy of good new things. That, my friends, is called the two words: genetic poverty. It has in mind, in the cells in blood, bone.
Fear to spend money on yourself makes you poor.
4. Subliminal programmirovanieDeti who see shabby corners unconsciously programmed to poverty. Even in adolescence, they begin to realize the severity of it. More Anton Chekhov noted that the shabby walls and dirty corridors bad influence on the student's ability to learn.
Dirt and poverty inhibit a person familiar look squalid environment programs to be a loser.
You could argue me that hatred of poverty encourages some people to grow and make money, but I'll tell you that much more people breaks down under the burden of poverty. Do the words "trouble" and "poverty" one root. Throw yourself away from trouble. Throw away poverty. How do I like the phrase: "Wealth - a state of mind." So, poverty - is also a state of mind.
The Wealth and Poverty - a state of your mind and your thoughts.
In the book by Grace "Grace Laws» em>
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