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20 evidence that your life is happier than you think
happy life consists of many details. Many of them we do not even notice in our daily lives. But they are really worth the value.
When everything goes wrong, and it seems that everything goes wrong in your life, think about this list. These things - little reason to be proud of themselves.
you pay your bills this month. And perhaps you have even left some amount that you can spend on yourself. No matter how much you annoy these responsibilities, it is important that they are there and you carry them out. This is independence. You ask yourself questions. you question their actions and sometimes even feel miserable. This means that you are open to further growth and development, able to objectively evaluate yourself and strive to achieve more. Do you have a job. It does not matter how many hours and at what positions you're running. You earn money, which you can eat something, somewhere to sleep and something to wear every day. If all of this does not look the way you imagined once were, do not consider it a failure. You value your independence and are responsible for themselves. Do you have the time to do what you like. Even if it's "like" only includes a sofa, a dinner and series. You do not worry about what to eat for dinner. Do you have food in the refrigerator or in the pantry, and you can even choose what to eat today. Do you enjoy eating. And not only perceive it as a means of survival. Do you have a couple of really close friends. People are often worried about the number, but eventually realize that the number does not affect the degree of intimacy, relationship and understanding between people. you can afford to go on the subway this morning, drink a cup of coffee or fill your car. And you do not even pay attention to such trifles. You have not the man I was a year ago. You learn, grow and be able to determine what you have changed for the better, and what is worse. Do you have the time. This means that you can do something, and in addition to the most necessary things. You may have recently been at the concert of your favorite band, read a new book or went for a day to see the nearby town. You do not need to work 24 hours a day, and you have the time and entertainment. Do you have all the most necessary clothes. You are not worried about a cap and gloves during the cold winter. Do you have cool clothes for the summer holidays, and even beautiful things that can be worn, for example, for the wedding of friends. Do you feel that in your life something goes wrong. The first and most crucial step - is the realization that something is definitely going wrong. Even if you still do not know what to do to make it better. If you had the opportunity to meet young yourself, you would have told him: "We did it, we did it, we have gone through this terrible storm». All his injuries you have left in the past, and little say to yourself: "You in the future, everything will be fine." Do you have your own space. It's not necessary to be an apartment or house. This can be a room, a corner table, where you're doing things you love or relaxing. There you can decide who can be part of your little world. This place, which is controlled by you personally. You could not best to break the relationship. It is very important that they have been. But even more important is that you and your partner made a conscious and deliberate decision to break up. This means that you are open to something new and are determined to find their man. Are you interested in something. It does not matter what it is: relationships, sex, reading, movies, space or the creation of life on Earth. There is something that greatly excites your brain. Do you know how to take care of myself. You know how many hours you now need to sleep, tomorrow to feel good, you know who to turn to when your heart is broken, with whom to have fun and what to do when you are wrong. Do you work for a particular purpose. Even if you have already exhausted, but the dream still vague and seem so far away, it is important to have it and strive for it. But you are not fixated only on his future. The happiest people on earth still able to appreciate and enjoy what is happening here and now. You have gone through many difficulties. you safely take any challenge that life throws you, comparing it with past difficulties, which seemed impossible to overcome. But now you have another and experience. Life does not become easier, you just become smarter.
See also:
30 little reason to be happy every day
"Happiness - it's the word" today "»
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