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Seven stages of a relationship that will show you why true love and a real relationship comes with time



We choose a husband or wife. However, to experience true love in family life, it is necessary to know each other, become friends, and then fall in love. Many people falsely believe love candy buketny first period. After all, once the romance leaves, rose-colored glasses falling, partners face the first difficulty, the first test of relations. And someone said - love is gone.

The dedication and patience - the main qualities of love. If you have decided that your relationship "love is over", rest assured that it has not yet started.

These seven stages of a relationship that will show you why true love and a real relationship comes with time:

1. candy buketny stage
Candy buketny period lasts about 18 months. Since men and women when they fall in love with each other, the hormones produced in the body that help to see the world in bright colors. During this period, they all seem surprising in their partner. They feel as if intoxicated.

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We should not at this time to take fateful decisions, because the effect of this intoxication sooner or later stop, everything will fall into place.

Step 2. glut
During this period, you begin to take a sober look at your relationship and your partner, the sea of ​​feelings subside, you will gradually get used to each other. The consequence of this is to change your behavior - you start to behave in a more relaxed and natural.

Step 3. disgust
Step disgust can not be avoided in any long-term relationship. Quarrels and identify gaps to each other are characteristic of this phase. You would think that the easiest way to avoid all this - the separation or divorce. After leaving, you will soon re-enter the candy buketny stage with another person, and take steps to re-start, until you get to it and do not go to the next.

Step 4. patience
At this stage the partners acquire wisdom. Quarrels have not worn such a dramatic character, because both know that the quarrel is over, and the relationship must continue. If both do their best to develop their patience over the years come to them wisdom. It's the law.

5. Step duty or respect
This is the first stage of true love, since before that love was not. Partners begin to understand their responsibilities, not thinking about what it must be the other partner, and that he can do, and give to his beloved.

6. Stage friendship
During this period the partners have become very close to each other. They trust each other as the closest friends. Stage friendship opens the way to true love.

7. Step true love
For true love go a very long time, walking together through the difficult life stages and situations. True love - this is not something that you suddenly falls from the sky, as many believe. For real, adult love people mature, abandoning selfishness and prejudice.