9 reasons why you are stuck in one place Bashny.Net

In order to survive the most difficult periods in life you need to re-learn how to move forward.



Life is constantly changing. And if you get stuck in one place, this is also your choice.

But it is a choice, not chance that decides your destiny. The road may be long, but it is always open to you. The ancient Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu said: "Even the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step." If you do not like the way in which you go, you always have the option to change it. In fact, you have to change the trajectory of motion for its own sake. But initially, you can only make one step forward.

In other words, in order to survive the most difficult periods in your life you need to re-learn how to move forward.

Today, if you were stuck in one place, it means that you do not move. And most likely it's because ...

1. You do not take responsibility for the situation
Too many people have the habit of blaming fate or bad luck in their own mistakes and the current situation. Only few recognize that the situation in which they find themselves, is the result of choices made by them. In life it is the foundation that must be corrected in order to grow further. You have to accept the situation, to take responsibility for it, learn a lesson, make the necessary adjustments and move on.

2. You have succumbed to their fears
If you do great things and you go to your goals, make sure you run into situations that scare you and cause discomfort. And what is to be done? Move on without losing enthusiasm. Remember the fear that we sometimes allow to control our lives, truly terrifying and completely unnecessary. Especially when you consider one very important fact: the fear is just a figment of our imagination.

3. You continue to ignore his destiny
What you're looking for, you realize it or not, it's the feeling that you are alive and live your life your way. You do not have to satisfy all the rest. You all-navsegodolzhny find something, what you believe, what will strengthen you and help you move forward, regardless of the actions and opinions of others. It is better to live your own life imperfectly than to live a semblance of someone's life perfect.

4. You are accustomed to the negative
It's not about how you look at things, and that you see. Most huge obstacle that you need to overcome this obstacle that exists in your head. If you do not control your thinking, then it will control you. Negative thoughts are like weeds. If you are not completely get rid of the root, they will sprout again and again. So - take destiny into their own hands. Believe in yourself. Pay no attention to those who robs you of self-confidence. Avoid people, places, things and habits that make a negative in your life. Do not give up and do not let negativity hold of you.

5. You do not appreciate what you have
Take a minute. Inhale slowly and deeply. Now exhale. Feel the beauty of your breath. And say: "Thank you." Perhaps you woke up today with a headache or a toothache, but you woke up. You had better days than this, but there have been worse. Today, you do not have anything you want, but there is everything to move forward. Life is not perfect, but uniquely beautiful.

6. You do not give rest to the idea of ​​a time that no longer come back to you
Today would not be better if you continue to think and worry about yesterday. It does not matter that might happen, or should be. This day is here and Now to you that you live. It is normal that now you do not have all the answers. In fact, you never see them and do not know. Just keep on living, focus on the present, do everything possible and trust developments.

7. Are you looking for happiness is not in itself
Enlightenment - is not the accumulation of knowledge and full understanding of who you are. The real wealth has nothing to do with material things. This rejection of the abundance that there is no limit. What you're looking for is not somewhere, it is here and now, with you. The more you are looking for happiness outside of itself, the longer it will hide from you. Calm down, think about your most cherished desires, let them come true.

8. You keep looking for the easy way
Once you oglyanёtes back and realize that in order to get all the most valuable, what you have today, you had to make every effort. It must be so, because the challenges are often willing to ordinary people for extraordinary success. Each fight is given for the experience or lessons learned. Great Way will never be easy.

9. You have to let go of the situation and move forward
Sometimes, to be strong and move forward - this is the only option that you have. In life there are things which you can never completely get used to. The best thing you can do - easy to get through it. But it is quite normal. The struggle for the future is worth the effort. There is still a lot of beauty.

MARC CHERNOFF