1. Do not waste time on self-pity h6> You will never see how strong the spirit of a man regrets his sorrowful state, blames circumstances or experiencing how badly he had been treated. Such a person is able to take responsibility for their actions and their results, understands and accepts the fact that life is not always fair. He can honorably withdraw from the trial, get lessons and thanking him for life. When the situation is bad, successful man replies, "Oh, well, what to do" or simply "Next!».
2. Do not use their power h6> Strong willed people tend not to use their power over other people, to make their subordinates feel humiliated or bad. Successful people understand that their strength lies in the ability to control their actions and emotions.
3. Do not be afraid of change h6> Strong spirit people accept change and were willing to meet the risk. Their most powerful "fear" (if any) is not the unknown, but before you can become complacent and stagnant. Time for a change gives them energy and sharpens their best qualities.
4. Do not waste energy on something you can not control h6> Strong willed people do not complain long and tedious to traffic jams, lost luggage, and especially other people. They take these facts as events beyond their control. In a difficult situation successful people realize that the only thing subservient to their control - it's their own reactions and attitudes to the situation.
5. Do not worry about having to please everyone
You know the people trying to please everyone? Or, conversely, those who climbs out of his way to harm others and thus strengthen its image of a strong man? Both of these positions are bad. Strong-willed people are trying to be kind and fair, and please others only where appropriate. However, they are not afraid to express an opinion that might upset someone.
6. Do not be afraid of reasonable risk h6> Strong spirit person is willing to take risks intelligently. But before that, he carefully weigh the risks, the value of winning and calculates the worst case scenario even before (and if) the events begin to unfold.
7. Do not regret the past h6> It is necessary to have a special power to accept the past and move on. Appreciate the things that you have learned in the past, but do not waste your mental and spiritual energy on the experiences of past disappointments and nostalgia. Strong willed people put their energy into making the best of this.
8. Do not repeat their mistakes h6> We all know the definition of insanity, right? This is when a person repeatedly performs the same actions, and hoping to get a different or better than the earlier results. The ability to accurately and productive self-reflection - this is one of the most obvious strengths of successful directors and entrepreneurs.
9. Do not envy the success of others h6> Agree, requires special skill to feel the sincere joy and admiration for the success of another person. Strong-willed people have this ability. They do not envy and do not experience unpleasant emotions when others achieve success. Successful people work hard to improve their chances of success, and not rely on clever workarounds.
10. Do not give up after the failure h6> Every failure - a chance to improve themselves. Even great entrepreneurs readily acknowledge the fact that their first attempts in business often end in failure. Strong-willed people are willing to failure, if necessary, and if it gives them the experience and learns new things. Every failure brings you closer to the desired goal.
11. Do not be afraid of loneliness h6> Strong-willed people are able to enjoy the solitude. They use it to make sense of their past and present and plan for the future. More importantly - their happiness and mood are independent of the behavior of other people. They can be happy and together with other people, and alone.
12. Do not assume that the world is something you should h6> Stop thinking that the universe / shareholder / employer / spouse always and at all times obliged to pay you a salary and generally provide a comfortable life. Strong willed people come into this world ready to work and succeed and rely on their own qualities and abilities.
13. Do not expect rapid results h6> Whether you plan workouts, healthy eating regimen or starting a new business, strong-willed people are willing to wait for the results of long. They are intelligent enough to understand that the early results are not possible, and that these changes take time. Be patient.
