What can be done when quarrels

1. Never mention the parents.

The fact that your quarrel should only affect you and your partner, so - never mention the parents. Resentment for parents zasyadet so deep that you can not get rid of it for years. Just do not let your parents take part in the quarrel. If it does happen, then the problem affects not only the husband and wife, and the two families. Such a fight very easily turn into hostility. And if even between husband and wife to restore harmony to remain contradictions between the families that will only complicate life.

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2. Avoid any violence.

Usually it does not reveal any quarrel good character or ladies or gallant. Very often couples engaging in a tough quarrel can not appeal the words and go to fist fights. No matter how angry you are angry and never let yourself and your partner to resort to violence. The pain resulting from a loved one, just destroy the love between you.

3. Do not talk about the divorce.

No matter what words you are saying to each other, but never mentioned divorce. This is the most hurtful words that can be uttered by a husband or wife. Divorce necessarily be followed if one partner during an argument he constantly mentions. We are sure if you still love each other, then you will be sorry all my life, in a fit of anger made an impulsive divorce.

4. Never leave home during an argument.

In the movies are often shown as the wife / husband ran out of the house to catch up with your soul mate and apologize. However, in the real world it is unlikely to happen. To leave home during an argument - the most incompetent behavior. The best way - to remain silent on the replica partner, and when he calmed down, try to resolve the conflict.

5. Do not go to bed alone.

You have to go to bed with your partner, as we did every night before the argument. This is the best way to put an end to the tense atmosphere. First, you can turn back to each other, but after you go to sleep, daily habits will prevail over your offense. When you wake up in the morning, then we may find that your partner is looking you in the face and smiling. The end of the quarrel.

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