"Stop without demands", or why he did not call ... Bashny.Net

Candy buketny period in full swing, and you feel that he is burning, and with it burn itself. But he goes on a business trip, and you completely incomprehensible reasons, some days not ring.



You will not let the mobile out of his hands, periodically checking its ability to function, but under the influence of his unshakable pride dial cherished number is still not solved. Well, of course ... you're afraid to let him know that he cares about you. Or maybe the other way around? You did not call him just because you are afraid to receive not particularly joyful alternative to his voice? Silence, smooth long beeps or does "subscriber not available" ... And maybe that's why you're running, and obviously there where not even come, plunging into the unknown on their own, which, at first glance, seems to be less painful. However, under this scenario, you also have no choice as to face with their doubts and already being played out, a sick imagination.



One by one, begin to attack the head of thoughts, all colorful and at the same time absurd, but it all begins, as a rule, with the option that is closest to reality. He does not call, because "upahalsya." Is not it a good reason? Yes, perhaps for him, but not for you. You hardly willing to put up with this and prefer to go further in the wake of his imagination. You comprehend rebuttal, entailing the following, at first glance, logical thought, but it is ... Well, "upahalsya" but did he die of a stuffed sms? No, of course ... so tired that sleep on the move or in the shower? Brad ... A day ... why he did not call and do not write during the day? It there is no lunch breaks, or he is so busy that even the office once to go? Also, by ... On this basis, the conclusion is only one: do not want to. Reinforces him immortal in the women's minds "if the man wants to do something!" ... And all the fear and doubt with great force spread over the entire body, and you, pale and agitated, no longer able to stop your imagination ... So, do not want. And do not want to can only be, if not bored, does not remember, does not think ... cool? It can not be ... more 4 days ago you were sipping sweet morning in his arms, and he even reached out dreamily as pleasant and happy to wake up with you ... So what happened? And why he did not call ?! And if another woman ... aaaaahhh ... and if in truth the other ?! He said he went to not one, but with a colleague ... And what if this fellow - a woman ...? And they had a novel ... well, no ... this can not be ... what if? Or is there someone met ... so much so that immediately forgot everything? Hardly ... And you start chasing the record of the thoughts around, putting them in different patterns, and a headache all the time to grow with more and more force ...

And if you look at it from the other side? It does not ring. And the point. It does not ring. Well, okay. And think about how you feel and what you are at this very moment ... here and now? Perhaps such an approach, all the baseless doubts dissolve themselves and sick imagination silently closes his mouth without getting the next portion of the sweet on you? And then comes the most time to think about what you really feel? Nothing ... It does not happen! All the same-thing ... Deeper! Look deeper ... What do you see there? What do you feel? I do not whether the sweet nostalgia that causes blissful smile on his lips ... And did not realize that because he did not see him for several days, you really missed him? I do not suffer from the fact that you can not control his actions, and enjoy your, including sensations, from which you feel good in my soul and in harmony? Listen ... you feel the excitement in the heart? A warm, bottled inside of you? Is it in this very moment you do not realize that, really, bored, while your man, somewhere out there making money, and obviously miss you, too! And maybe it is worth considering not that why he did not, and that gives it to you? Can such a pause is needed, and in order to feel that their true relationship with Him and understand ... and whether you do it? Then realize or do not realize that you are in the pleasant anticipation of the meeting on his return, which after separation will be silent even sweeter?

In the stream of modern rhythm, we do not have time to notice much, do not attach importance to the important but sometimes forget about expensive ... So maybe those same moments, and given to us over our forced stop, and contribute nothing else as a revaluation of existing values, followed by the erection of a higher rank? In any case, mentally sent him a sincere smile from the heart of much nicer and healthier than hiding agitated pallor beneath rouge ... It can now, at this very moment, so he needs it, and he lacked the heat of your ...