What is attractive to men in women-hysterical Bashny.Net

The complexity of love

 

In my practice there were few patients Eternal Prince who was in love with the hysterical and couldn't leave, even though he knew that such a relationship to anything good will not. One of those men of the successful businessman became a servant and driver hysteric Siren Siren, all his business went into decline, because all the time he devoted to her and her whims. This story prompted me to study this relationship.

If you know the cause of this inclination it is possible to avoid it and save many good men from the hysterical. After a couple of years of such relationship, the man turns into a tired old man who brings suffering not only to themselves but also to loved ones.





Let's start with the definition of hysteria, which includes a complex of diseases and associated conditions. These include neuroses, psychoses, psychopathy and accentuation. All state of hysteria are closely associated with deep psychologically traumatic memories and experiences, personality, with the rapid, heightened, and depending on the composition of the public manifestations of the symptoms of hysteria. It is often noted that the patient may behave more actively and hysterically at the doctors, but surrounded by ordinary people, become a healthy person.

Often doctors think that such people pretend and pretend play, so do not need treatment. Doctors must always remember – these people are really sick and they need treatment, so if to cope with them is not strong enough, it is better to transfer the patient to another professional, but in any case not to refuse assistance.

Hysterical psychosis is manifested very clearly and sharply, associated symptoms – seizures, nervous movements, stupor. It is based on the strongest psychological trauma. Others once it becomes clear that in front of them – a sick man, so he immediately called the doctor. Neurosis-like psychosis is also injured, but in addition symptoms can still have symptoms of neurological, somatic, autonomic, and what you want. That is, a person may complain of various pains, to go to the doctors different directions.

When psychopathy and the accentuation apparently you can see the same signs, but the degree of psychopathy leads to problems with society. The nature of accentuation depends on the environment into which the patient falls. If the environment is positive, people will be able to develop it, for example, if accentuant becomes an actor, his performance and ability to reincarnation will help in career growth.If he chooses the scope of activities quite inappropriate to his features – an exact science, activities concerned with the economy and money, it will chase disruptions and attacks.

Now, in General, sketching the portrait of a hysterical personality. The main symptoms of hysterical disorders is emotional aborted, strongly developed self-centeredness and selfishness, physical and psychological infantilism. Man is characterized by rapid and severe emotional excitability, instability of reactions to stimuli.

The temperament of the individual is characterized by high activity and reactivity, the strongest sensitivity. The speed of reaction is much increased. Such a person shows the amazing plasticity of the character, sometimes it comes down to the fact that at different moments appear to be completely opposite personalities in one.

Individuals can sometimes be like overly sociable extrovert, all its manifestations of nature contradict each other, his thoughts and actions are inconsistent. Psychological immaturity is pushing him to react and make decisions depending on the dominant emotion now, life beliefs are shallow and unstable, it's easily the opinions of others, often and a lot of dreams. Such people possess a high degree of selfishness, they are fixated on yourself and capricious, can be arrogant. I love it when they pay a lot of attention and aspire to it. Separate individuals may differ in chronic mendacity and mythmaking.

All the interests and mood of hysterical personalities is absolutely unsustainable and depend on the situation.

Their main goal that they are interested in is the saturation of their selfish need for attention and narcissism. From this goal is their infantile behavior. All emotional and exciting stories of friendship or love happen instantly, surprising in its sharpness and brightness, but soon fading. Tantrums it's hard to really fulfill a specific social role, so they can just mask up the benefit in their Arsenal a large number of them. If the mask meets all the requirements of a selfish, sick it is so comfortable that even others may be able to accept her true identity.





All these features are characteristic of the "Mellifluous sirens", but is especially pronounced among them temperamental giperplasticeski, they can be in awe of his victim. Siren is so plastic in behavior that envelop their prey – they are attuned to its nature and habits.

That is why they seem for men so attractive in the beginning of the relationship seems the same the only one that will understand and accept. Usually, the victims of Sirens and become promising young Princes, who do not have the proper experience to recognize hysteria.

The rapture of the Sirens nenadumanno, they really admire the victim, see its potential and opportunities, support in all undertakings. Sincere help and enthusiasm lulls the vigilance of the victim, who does not even suspect a trick. Often the man in return feels excitement about the Sirens. All friends and things become not as important as time spent in the company of the Sirens.

And at some point the development of the men begins to slow down, stop career growth, and Serena immediately turns into a new promising young man. And the former victim remains in a deplorable state, with a sense of despair and pain. There are that men after this so don't come in themselves and lead an ugly life. Other for a very long time recover and come to life. Sometimes feelings of victims of abuse grow into love, and they don't see the point of existence without the Sirens. This behavior requires special treatment and care.

All activities that occur Mellifluous Siren unconsciously, so don't blame her, she does need treatment. Her giperplasticeski forcing her to envelop the victim, to surround, so that after the breakup she can not be the same. Siren all constantly helping in career success, you never reach the top of the stairs, and staying in second place.

Now it became clear that like the hysterical men because they have the impression that they found a sole mate. In continuation of the relations they are constantly waiting for that Siren will be the same as it was in the beginning. But the more, the more hope fades. And in the end the man turns into a tired, old man, perhaps even any diseases. After this relationship, the desired rate of recovery, the psychotherapist and the desire to forget the Siren. published

 

Author: Michael Litvak

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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