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Your thoughts about the value of human feelings that make us real and alive, especially for econet.ru shared psychologist Sergei Muchkin.

"In-out" strength. Strength appears when connected with something inside myself. With yourself, with your true self... it can be different.

And the key to this — just BE with your feelings. That is. Right here and now!

Fear — fear.

Embarrassed — so embarrassed.

Joy — so joy.





What feelings manifest themselves — our children's And Ya they are the same — our deep, true self.

And everything else is a mask protection, "vyzhivatelnogo strategy"...

Yes, they are also necessary and useful (who would argue...) is only life in them.

Any feelings, even the most difficult and "unpleasant" — it's about Life!!

And "protection", "mask", vyzhivatelnogo strategy (even the most "decent" reliable, "right") — paradoxically — it is always "about death."

Even after attempts to "avoid death".





I will take the liberty to assert, that there is no more attractive to men — women who, right now, with him living his... embarrassment, your shame, your anger, your helplessness... Your feelings!

Because then it is — REAL !!

And because it's about Life!!

And there is nothing more attractive than Life! Even in the other person.

By the way — to men this also fully applies.

 

Author: Sergey Muchkin, especially for

 

P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

Source: Sergey Muckin