Eyes. Psychosomatics: the Displacement that "cannot or do NOT want to see" Bashny.Net

Eyes are the most expressive part of our face. It involves a lot of Proverbs, sayings: "fear has big eyes", "Visible sadness with clear eyes, and grief at in the face" "in either eye", "the Eye sees, but the tooth is itching", "crying", "the eye of envy sharpens the soul", "Talking eye to eye", "out of sight, out of mind", "Eyes are afraid, and hands do".

Indeed, the eyes participate in the expression of almost all emotions.

We can see her eyes fill with tears as his eyes fill with rage as his eyes gets covered in sadness, as they Shine with joy and happiness, as they are rounded in surprise and hide from shame and lies.

If we could look deep enough into people's eyes, we would see their doubts, pain, sadness, anger and all their feelings.





And one of the assignments for our students is carefully and with interest to look into the eyes of different people: different ages, different social status, friends and strangers.

How do you think they do the job?

Twenty percent doing it with pleasure, interest, curiosity, and feel joyful, uplifted, full of life.

The rest of the job is causing difficulties. Some even "forget" to do it, the other is obtained only close to look in the eye, others avert their eyes when in contact with strangers or more of their posts.

What they feel about it in your body?

They feel that the body is compressed, reduced abdominal muscles, coldness in the abdomen, shoulders wrapped forward, the chest front is folded inward, the breath is restrained, the head is bent forward and down, the lump in my throat, stiffness in the arms, legs they do not feel.

Do you think that they can see in the eyes of other people?

Often they see fear, sadness, anxiety, sorrow, care.

Tell me whose fear? It is their fear that now say "What are you staring at?", it is their anxiety, "what will this person think about me?" this is sadness and sorrow and longing for close human contact.

But not so simple. In the eyes of other people we really can see all this, we just "read" his body and eyes as the other person.

It can be those emotions that people don't want to show. In the East, and now in the West to show himself in sorrow or anger means losing face. We try to "keep face" and hide their weaknesses, not only from others but from themselves.

And when we pass by and don't raise our eyes to man, we would sign as tacit agreement: "I won't look into your soul if you won't look in mine." Is this considered a good tone is to ignore the essence of another person under the mask that he wears.

We rarely look into each other's eyes, even when we say Hello and respond, "great!" to the question "How are you?".





What happens when we lock eyes with another person?

We literally come into contact with the eyes. And if the flow of energy, connecting the eyes of two people is cordial and soft, it can awaken in their hearts a sense of love. Hence the expression "love at first sight".

But the eye can radiate as love, and anger and hatred. Then we are talking about the "evil gaze", which supposedly has the power to send the person a "hex" or "hex". Angry look can indeed be so strong that they are able to immobilize people. Hating look can be powerful enough to freeze susceptible person.

Eyes wide open, soft and radiant love these eyes see the world with admiration and some fear at the same time. Unfortunately, few have such eyes. The world of our childhood, not everyone was able to cause such feelings.

Nothing describes the relationship between mother and child, as the degree of eye contact between them. When the child sees the delight and love in her mother's eyes, it dissolves in the warmth and pleasure. If the mother is tense, her blank eyes hovering over the child, like a cloud. And then her gaze violates the sense of security of the child and his sense of reality.

We shrink from pain physically and mentally. We don't want to see a painful and unpleasant scene, the pain on the faces of people. If the reluctance of this type become chronic and unconscious, it can disrupt the functioning of the eyes. Myopia or nearsightedness — the inability to see beyond their own noses. Myopic eyes are afraid, but the man rarely feels this fear. His fear comes from childhood experiences, is the fear of to see full of hatred and anger eyes of the parents.

Zamurovannye is an attempt to ignore the reality of a threatening situation. Narrowing the field of view, we matter how remote the threat.

Tears — the basic element of stress relief. The child cries when does not get what he wants. So it relieves unbearable tension.

A ban on the display of emotions in childhood causes stress in the eye area and serves to suppress the crying, fear, anger — because these emotions are clearly expressed through the eyes.

Fear of making a mistake, mistake, mistake.

Fear to see the rating yourself from other people.

Fear to offend, to insult another person.

The displacement of that "can't see".

 



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