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Psychosomatic diseases: how to program children are our stereotypes of education
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1. "Don't drink cold water, and then your throat hurts".
— Sore throat not from the cold water, and from unexpressed emotions/thoughts.
If the child is not to shut his mouth when he speaks, shouts, cries, and do not blame him for his words, emotions and their expression, the throat will not hurt.
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2. "Do not play with food.»
— Children do not know how to behave. They learn about the world, and the physical properties of objects, including food.
3. "Don't look so close, and the eyes will break/sight put»
— What do you mean broken? Where vision put, on the couch or something?)))
Vision deteriorates (becoming nearsighted), when forming unpleasant associations with the future. For example, when an adult says roughly: "here grow up — you learn", "grow — understand how hard life is/earned, etc.»
And vision becomes myopic, when a person refuses to see the details, also the result of restrictions on it.
Children love to look at everything, touch it, including on the street, and the adults pulled their bump, need not to bother, not to be picked. Parents are strongly pull children out of the macrocosm in adult life is boring.
4. "Stop fooling around/messing/rage".
— Yes, why would it? Even when fooling around, not in childhood?
If a child is not to nadorcity as it should, then this desire to "be a clown" will constantly emerge in adulthood in the most weird forms and images on the background of the overall seriousness of a man. Also will be accompanied by internal dissatisfaction.
5. "What are you saying! Aren't you ashamed?!»
— Very dangerous to hang on a child's shame and guilt. An adult sheds its responsibility for yourself, your status, your level of consciousness, his method of upbringing on the child. And then the child lives with this strange cargo, hurts, becomes unhappy, angry at the world, starts to pakostnichat and vrednichat.
6. "Stop crying! Settle down!»
Is like saying: "Enough to clear my soul, let this inner pain in me and live on with her, pretend that you're not hurt, deceive themselves."
Don't you cry the pain will always accumulate and make the child angrier and harder.
7. "Fall, hit, hurt".
— Speaking child, then so be it. These words are not a warning to the child, and the facts which programmed his Mind to such an outcome.
Instead of such phrases should help the child to try there where no one tried to give him a hand, to support, to give the child confidence in his abilities. published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: www.draugiem.lv/www.transferfaktors.lv/blog/?p=12083703
— Sore throat not from the cold water, and from unexpressed emotions/thoughts.
If the child is not to shut his mouth when he speaks, shouts, cries, and do not blame him for his words, emotions and their expression, the throat will not hurt.
Thirty three million eight hundred sixty four thousand seven hundred sixty one
2. "Do not play with food.»
— Children do not know how to behave. They learn about the world, and the physical properties of objects, including food.
3. "Don't look so close, and the eyes will break/sight put»
— What do you mean broken? Where vision put, on the couch or something?)))
Vision deteriorates (becoming nearsighted), when forming unpleasant associations with the future. For example, when an adult says roughly: "here grow up — you learn", "grow — understand how hard life is/earned, etc.»
And vision becomes myopic, when a person refuses to see the details, also the result of restrictions on it.
Children love to look at everything, touch it, including on the street, and the adults pulled their bump, need not to bother, not to be picked. Parents are strongly pull children out of the macrocosm in adult life is boring.
4. "Stop fooling around/messing/rage".
— Yes, why would it? Even when fooling around, not in childhood?
If a child is not to nadorcity as it should, then this desire to "be a clown" will constantly emerge in adulthood in the most weird forms and images on the background of the overall seriousness of a man. Also will be accompanied by internal dissatisfaction.
5. "What are you saying! Aren't you ashamed?!»
— Very dangerous to hang on a child's shame and guilt. An adult sheds its responsibility for yourself, your status, your level of consciousness, his method of upbringing on the child. And then the child lives with this strange cargo, hurts, becomes unhappy, angry at the world, starts to pakostnichat and vrednichat.
6. "Stop crying! Settle down!»
Is like saying: "Enough to clear my soul, let this inner pain in me and live on with her, pretend that you're not hurt, deceive themselves."
Don't you cry the pain will always accumulate and make the child angrier and harder.
7. "Fall, hit, hurt".
— Speaking child, then so be it. These words are not a warning to the child, and the facts which programmed his Mind to such an outcome.
Instead of such phrases should help the child to try there where no one tried to give him a hand, to support, to give the child confidence in his abilities. published
P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©
Source: www.draugiem.lv/www.transferfaktors.lv/blog/?p=12083703
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