How to master the art of communication Bashny.Net

When communicating with family members or colleagues sometimes there are conflicts, misunderstandings, recriminations, and quarrels. Their number can be minimized if you master the art of communication. Then relationships with others become more harmonious.

Swipe introspection. Try to look at ourselves as the interlocutor, to understand what are your mistakes. Sometimes this process is enough to identify weaknesses and start over. Imagine, pleasant, helpful if you would communicate with a man like you. Think about how you are interesting, attentive, aggressive, nice, or categorical.





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To master the art of communication, you need to deal with their internal problems or to identify, acknowledge their presence, so as not to project their dissatisfaction, discontent of some life circumstances on others. Because here and take the rudeness, suspiciousness, bias and selfishness that hinder the construction of sincere, open, honest, effective relationships with other people.

Learn to understand yourself better. Because in the process of communication, you probably seek to Express your own personality, to bring their ideas to share that feeling. If you don't begin to realize what exactly is going on inside you, or can't find the words to speak, the goal of the communication process will not be achieved. Improve your fluency in speech, expand your vocabulary and try to be honest with yourself.

Remember that the meaning of communication is not only a statement of his own thoughts, and getting feedback. It is therefore important to learn to listen to others. Otherwise, you will not receive any new information or not understand what was said by your interlocutor. Develop your ability to listen, be attentive to other people, try to delve deeply into the subject. By the way, surrounding are waiting from you the same feedback.

Learn to reject stereotypes that prevent to correctly understand the other person. Hanging around the labels, you are depriving yourself of the opportunity to immerse themselves in another world. So you remain unconvinced, nothing receiving from the communication. Refrain from categorical statements, biased advice. Try not to just Express their opinions, and to understand what principles a person lives.

Get rid of the habit to speak too harshly. Some people it may hurt. If you are used to say directly what they think about others, not sparing their feelings, do not be surprised that some part of them stubbornly avoids contact with you. First, you take your opinion too highly. Perhaps nobody is waiting for your comments when you speak unflattering about something or someone. Secondly, negative comments can hurt and alienate other people.

Respect other people's feelings. It happens that one man shares his experiences with others, and in response to receiving allegedly encouraging comments, urging to take things easier, not to bother and not to be upset because of nonsense. If you belong to such advisers, consider that what is expected of you. Sometimes others need sympathy and acceptance of their right to feel certain emotions.

Do not become a manipulator. Some people enjoy honesty and kindness of others, cause them guilt. Sooner or later, with such personalities to stop communicating, and they remain alone. If people don't trust you, their patience might come to an end. They realize that you use them and put a stop to it. And you will have a very long way to restoring his reputation. Play by the rules. You can not only receive from others, giving nothing in return. After all, communication is a mutually beneficial process.

What sex is your thinking? Science has proven that men and women think differently. Men performed better in tests for spatial reasoning. Women tell longer and more complex sentences than men. Men use the right hemisphere to work on abstract problems, while in women involve both hemispheres. Answer the questions in our test and find out how you have a male or female mindset. published

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

 

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