Eye contact: what I can tell Your eyes Bashny.Net

Observations of psychologists show that personal contacts interlocutors are not able to see each other all the time, but only 60% of the total time. However eye contact can go beyond these limits in two cases: the lovers and violent men. So if an unfamiliar person for a long time and stares at you, most often it speaks about the hidden aggression.

The duration of eye contact depends on the distance between the interlocutors. The greater the distance, the longer the eye contact between them. So communication will be more effective if partners sit on opposite sides of the table — in this case, the increase in the distance between them will be offset by an increase in the duration of eye contact.
 





 

Women longer look at those who sympathize with them, and the men — those who sympathize with them.

It is observed that women more often than men use direct view, but because they are less likely to perceive a stare as a threat. On the contrary, the woman considers direct gaze an expression of interest and desire to establish contact. Although not all straight men women perceive favorably, much depends on the person.

We should not think that direct gaze is a sign of honesty and openness. Able to lie a person can stare at the eyes of the interlocutor, and also to control their own hands, not allowing them to get closer to the face. However, if the liar is not so trained, such as a child, cheating can be easily recognized: his hands and reach for the person, obstruct the mouth and nose, and eyes darting around.

Contraction and dilation of the pupils does not obey the mind, and therefore their response very clearly shows the interest of the partner in you.

Dilated pupils shows an increase of interest in you, the animosity will tell their contraction. However, similar phenomena should be observed in the dynamics because the pupil size also depends on light. In bright sunlight the pupils the narrow man, in a dark room the pupils dilated.

The theory of neurolinguistic programming claims that the movement of the eyes, you can see what images are now in the consciousness of man and what he is doing at the moment: invents or remembers.

If the partner looks left, up or just up, so it is steeped in visual memories. This view can be seen in humans, to answer the question "how does the hundred-ruble banknote".

Look in the direction to the right up issues of visual design. Man tries to represent something that he had never seen. For example, try to imagine your close friend in spacesuits.

Look left towards talking about auditory memories. For example, remember the sound of the piano. If the gaze is directed right into the side is a sign of auditory design. For example, imagine talking to aliens.

Look left down — internal conversation with myself.

A glance to the right down or just down produces a kinesthetic representation. For example, emotional and tactile. It sent your mind when you remember the sensations from a soft warm bed in which he lay.

For lefthanders the picture is completely opposite.

Ability relaxed and quietly observe the eyes of the interlocutor, as well as to analyze the results, will provide you with invaluable assistance in daily conversations, and in the case of an important business conversation. published

 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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