How to stand up for yourself: 9 things you need to tell the child Bashny.Net

These 9 tips will help you teach your child not to fight for ourselves and stand up for yourself.

1. Don't let anyone violate your rights. Nobody has the right to force you to act against your will, threaten you, tease or cause pain. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should brace up and defend themselves with words or actions. But you also must not violate the rights of other people!

2. Be sure of your actions and thoughts. (Keep in your child a positive self-image, praise for expressing a personal opinion. Praise for the good deeds, learn to respond to their own mistakes. Appreciate your child and his success, and then he will be confident.)

 





3. Believe in the best. (Teach your child to notice the good, not dwell on the negative. The man-the optimist is easier to perceive the world, such people attract the same positive people and a positive.)

4. You have the right to a personal opinion. (You should create different conditions for communication with different people, to connect children to this communication that they learn to Express their opinions, to start and maintain a conversation. Experience of communicating with different people in different situations will add to the confidence.)

5. Fighting is not the best option. Not always fight is the best way out of the situation. Often it only aggravates it. Words are much better help in these situations!

6. Never keep kids who tease you or others. (Teach your child what he and other people have a name that is of real value. All the other nicknames and teasers should be ignored.)

7. Never be afraid to refuse and say "no." (It is important that the child understand that he has a choice. He can always refuse, to say no. And most importantly, his choice will be respected.)

 

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8. Come running to me. (Teach your child to ask for help, if he can not cope. In the first place to turn is to the parents.)

9. Do sports. Sport, especially if you have success, it elevates confidence and in their abilities. Sport develops patience and endurance.published

 

Author: Olga Kramaric

 

 

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