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I used to think that a person can be anything: even a thief, though boor, though a fraud. So, since there was his family life as well as the parents brought the spirit or it is necessary to pass these lessons.

I now understand it, but I want to be around him people of a different order, completely different. These are people for whom the honor of the word, dignity, conscience matter.




Probably because of the same household busy women rarely think about these categories. More precisely, it is assumed that by the femininity they are not relevant, and therefore it is not necessary to work on features that do not develop femininity, do not help to find a man and get married, and it seems only interfere in the implementation of the external world. It's a delusion. Any relationship can be long-term and high-quality in only one case:. If the values ​​are the same people

I cause great fear man who can not explain what it means to honor and keeping one's word for it. If conscience he defines as "I try not to lie, maximum, just say nothing," that as a person he is a sad picture. Conscience - this is definitely something more. If a person can not independently determine for itself the moral categories, to control themselves, to assess their actions, it is very sad.

Psychologists can explain any behavior. In terms of how to find an excuse, it is very convenient science. Man has countless sexual contact, manipulate, avoid responsibility? So he nedolyublennosti child, his violation of affection due to traumatic relationship with his mother, and much more.

But if you grew up, he became a man, educate yourself! Look for your self! You can always find a justification for the pain that you cause to other people, but, more often, you see what you're doing, even if you know for a response. If you have a healthy brain (without organic lesions of childhood), you should be able to analyze. Even if some unseen force pushes you steal or take advantage of another person's body at once, you are able to understand, to see, to feel what others are doing poorly. And you see! But these doubts prefer to stick to the far corner of consciousness and justify himself.

If a person is controlled lower order values: money at any cost, at any price pleasure, indulgence of their own desires, he turns into a dirty, low-level creature

. Speaking psychological language, animal "It" takes precedence over "I" in the absence of "super-ego". "I" conscious and unconscious meet the desires and needs of "It" using norms and laws "superego." The presence of all three components of the "It", "I" and "superego" in the human psyche makes it complete, complete person. Otherwise, get a substitute, unfinished man, so it is impossible to build anything fully.

Neither the mind nor intelligence nor education alone do not determine the value of the highest order. These values ​​are formed from the inner purity and fullness of tireless work on oneself. They make a person not just a living being, as a man. Only the values ​​of higher order: dignity, respect, self-esteem, willpower and strength of mind, conscience ask the high vibrations of the soul and make him clean and bright

. Such people can not live, friends, work with dirty characters. They will never be able to understand. They will inevitably seek to suppress and destroy. The unconscious many times more powerful and stronger than the super-consciousness.

Choose your level of human values ​​and you will be happy!

Author: Lily Ahremchik