Do not let knock you out of the way: 7 facts about how ceases to depend on the opinions of others Bashny.Net

The site reminds too often we wait for something from the people, but all we need is contained in our samih.



1. Do not expect that people will be around to agree with vamiVy deserve to be happy. You deserve to live your life like dream. So do not let someone's opinion knock you off track. In this world, you are not in order to meet the expectations of other people, as well as other people do not live then, to fully justify your expectations. In fact, if you do approve of the decisions, you do not need the approval of anyone else.

2. Do not expect that people will respect you if you yourself do not uvazhaeteSila - the fortress of the spirit, not the muscles. Strength - Available principles and self-confidence, and to demonstrate their willingness to defend. Understand that others will not show you love, respect and attention, as long as you do not begin to appreciate yourself.

When you love and respect yourself, you give yourself the opportunity to be happy. And when you are happy, you become a better best friend, a better husband or wife, son or daughter of the best, the best version of yourself.

3. Stop glad that you like vsemS some people you can feel useless, unworthy of a man, with the other - not to feel self-worth. Do not forget about its value. And spend time with people who appreciate you.

It does not matter how well you relate to other people, there is always at least one negative person who will criticize you. Smile, ignore and move on.

4. Do not wait for the other person will be what you want it videtUvazhayte others for who they are, and not push them in trying to change. We can not thoroughly know the other person (despite the fact that we so often think). And to discover new facets of his soul, the nature - it's always great. And the more you get to know the other person, the easier you will appreciate it and see its beauty.





5. Stop glad that people will read your mysliVy certainly aware that people do not know how to read minds. They will never know what you're feeling really, if you do not tell us about it. For example, your boss may not think about improving, if you do not talk to him. A good-looking guy or girl did not speak to you because you are too shy: he or she can talk to you if you keep hiding from them? This is extremely important - just stretch your vocal chords and say the first word.

6. Do not expect the man suddenly izmenitsyaRasprostranёnnoe misleading: if you of someone hard to care for, in the end, he will cease to disappoint you and will change. No, it will not change. If you really want to change something in the behavior of another person, place all the cards on the table, tell everything as it is, make sure he knows how you feel and what you need.

You can not change in an instant the other, do not even try. Either take it as you are, or continue to live without him.

7. Stop waiting for that all by itself will horoshoMy all endowed with the ability to go ahead through the tribulations and hardships, instead of avoiding them. Support participation and compliance - the best gifts in life. We often receive them. We must learn to accept them, because we all share the same dreams, needs and aspirations.

Not always people behave the way we want. As they say, we hope for the best and expect the worst. Remember, your happiness is in direct proportion to your thoughts and your choices, from what point of view of looking at things.

via lifehacker.ru/2015/08/04/chego-ne-nado-zhdat-ot-drugih/